For the last four years i seem as if ive been living in a bubble...?!
Question: i thought about ending life and starting again but havent. i have been to counselling. some days im on top of the world but when i get tired these thoughts come rushing back. i lost someone important to me but as i say about four years ago. i suffer from panic attacks but not very often. i have a few friends but dont feel i can talk to them and my family wouldnt take it seriously and shrug the problem off. i grew up normally in a loving family but in my teen years everyything has changed i just want my old life back. im 16 now and feel a strong sense of disorientation and unrealisation, maybe im just tired. thank you for your time.
Answers: i thought about ending life and starting again but havent. i have been to counselling. some days im on top of the world but when i get tired these thoughts come rushing back. i lost someone important to me but as i say about four years ago. i suffer from panic attacks but not very often. i have a few friends but dont feel i can talk to them and my family wouldnt take it seriously and shrug the problem off. i grew up normally in a loving family but in my teen years everyything has changed i just want my old life back. im 16 now and feel a strong sense of disorientation and unrealisation, maybe im just tired. thank you for your time.
=l :( im sorry to hear that. Why dont you carry on to counselling if you dont go anymore. i use to go counselling when my dad passed away and it helped alot. I no im not exactly helping because i am only 14, but i no how you feel trying to end your life. But, dont do it. its the worst possible thing to do. Ending your life because you are depressed will not just stop you from having a future, it will really affect others around you. Just think, when you grow up about your children ect. Hope i helped. x
get someone you could take to.. i dont know the solution bit it always helps to get things out
take some antidepressants?? idk ur problem
u should try going out with friends.. that usually helps
you say you think about ending life and starting again. it doesn't work that way. this is your only life live it up. i recomend turning to Jesus.
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you are only 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you.
read a book about someone maybe.
my bro was stealing car radios when he was that age, now he earns millions
Maybe you're just going through some problems in your life that you're not sure how to handle just yet. The fact you're only 16 now would certainly lead me to believe that. If there's someone you need to talk to about this then I would definitely suggest your parents or at least one of them. If they begin to shrug it off then make it crystal clear that you are serious and simply need someone to lend an ear to your problems. That's what parents are supposed to be for anyway, guidance.
If you have been on this forum for a while you have seen many teenagers sharing this feeling.
It has been written about for a thousand years.
You will grow older and things will change for you.
Not only are you growing physically, but mentally and emotionally.
Enjoy what you can, while you can, and look for the good in people and events.
Sh*t happens period. end of story
'growing up' is tough hang in there you'll get that 'bubble' feeling at least 3 more times once in your 20's again in your 40's and again in your 60's or 70's (i think i'm not that old,yet)
You are just going through that time in your life where you don't really know what you are supposed to do. Think about things that you want to do or accomplish and start making goals for yourself, that way you will be focusing on things you like and enjoy! I personally have had alot of really hard times throughout my life and have weathered them all, and so can you. Keep in mind you have plenty of time at 16, you can set your goals and reach them. The loved one you lost, I am sure, would want you to remain strong and live for them. Good luck to you, I wish you all the best.
I think its normal to feel somewhat confused and unrealisation at 16. Your are trying to figure out the world according to you. All your parents have taught you are probably conflicting with the world around you. As a young man sometimes even at this age you have to make tough calls.
As for your feelings of sucide these are not normal feelings. You said that somone close to you died. You are still grieving there is no time limit on grief. You must ask yourself would the person who died want to see you this way? Contemplating ending your own life which is so precious. Please I ask you no to do this. I don't even know you and I want you to live. I think you do too or else you would not have posted this question. Try grief councelling Its a different type of councelling specifically for people going through grief. I think that may help you.
I don't know if you believe in God or what your religious backgroud is but you could try church. God is always there for us in our time of need. All you need to do is ask. I hope my words were helpful to you.