Kill myself?!
Question: Me and my gf got into a big fight. We both got bruses. One of her friends told the school. My gf didnt care but she didnt lie to them about us fighting. I love her very much and before her parnets made her get a restaning order on me, she sent me e-mail telling me just to wait until it all blows over and she still loves me. But people keep telling me maybe she really wanted out of the relationship and she sees this as her way out. The court hering is on wensday and i am so depressed. What should i do i am loseing it... sorry about the spelling errors.
Answers: Me and my gf got into a big fight. We both got bruses. One of her friends told the school. My gf didnt care but she didnt lie to them about us fighting. I love her very much and before her parnets made her get a restaning order on me, she sent me e-mail telling me just to wait until it all blows over and she still loves me. But people keep telling me maybe she really wanted out of the relationship and she sees this as her way out. The court hering is on wensday and i am so depressed. What should i do i am loseing it... sorry about the spelling errors.
First off, Dont kill yourself!
This will eventually go away. I think the first step in showing her that you still love her is to never hurt her again. Its illegal. If she wanted out of the relationship, she wouldn't have sent you that email. If she did want out, I think she would have just continued to press charges and not done anything more. Once you hit rock bottom, there's no where to go but up. (:
Hang in there and if it is meant to be for you to be together then things will work out, if not you have to be strong and go on with your life.
dont kill yourself over this!
it really will blow over
hurting eachother was wrong!
and ilegal!
pull yourself together, if not for you then for your gf
violence and abuse is never the answer!
although her friend did the right thing,
i would of done the same thing
just get a hold of urself for the love of god!
and just believe!
How old are you? When you are young, you're perspective on life is very wrong. Little things can seem like it is the end of the world. Just take some time. Do things that make you happy. Tell your girlfriend, if she really loved you, she wouldn't blame this on you, and she wouldn't want to wait. But if this happens often, the fighting, then you guys weren't meant to be together.
Nothing is ever so bad that you should kill yourself. Killing yourself is the most selfish thing to do in the world. God gave you that life, it is not yours to take away. If you did, think of how your family would feel. EVERYONE would blame themselves, ask why, and ask what they could have done.
Just think about long term. Don't do something for a girl, who wouldn't do the same for you. She's not worth it.
mate the only thing certain about life is death...
if you feel this is how and why you want to leave this world be my guest its your decided destiny...
but i want you to think about the girl and how much it would hurt her for you to do this BECAUSE of her if you love her...
well you decide...
you should not think of killing yourself on this. I feel it is better you two sit and talk and decide what is good for both.
i think u have to make law to your love
Firstly where the little tick is with the abc? Right next to it it says check spelling? Why apologise for your atrocious spelling when right there was your way to not appear so daft. Secondly it is disgusting to hit a woman, no matter what the circumstances or even if she hits you for your strength is twice hers! It is a GOOD thing you have this charge against you, now you cannot hurt her again but even so an abuser never changes. Love her? If you loved her this whole ordeal wouldn't've happened and it is best this happens. I don't take you seriously, this doesn't seem like a mature relationship and if you "loved" her you would set her free!
Hi, my name's Madeleine.
Oh what a mess! hang on and stay alive long enough to read some of these answers.
You're both still at school. You must know that relationships formed at school hardly ever turn into sixty-year marriages.
You must think of yourself now. Set aside the relationship with this girl for a moment. Focus on the sort of adult you are going to be.
I do not blame you for fighting with this young lady.
Don't blame yourself.
Instead, think about the things that led up to your fighting with her. Is there violence in your own home? What do you watch on TV, DVD? Is there conflict among members of your family?
I want you to picture yourself as a calm, mild-mannered Clark Kent. Is that you? Do you want that to be you? If not, what you do you see in your future vision?
It is up to you to make some choices about who you want to be. If that involves breaking from some violent family traditions, that's hard but not impossible.
If you have time before Wednesday, find a counsellor (maybe at school) and spill some of these questions to them.
You need to be represented at the hearing. If you can't arrange or afford a lawyer then your school counsellor or other staff member should be prepared to represent you or come with you to the hearing. Don't go alone to the hearing.
You have to leave your girl alone now. This is adult stuff: you have to move on. I hope you can move to a place where this sort of thing is behind you.
Go well
Madeleine
Don't do anything dumb. Wait till court happens. Present your side of things calmly and politely too. Good luck
This sounds pretty messed up. Im sorry but no1 on here can tell you whats right.
You need to wait it out and just see what happens. If you love her, make sure she knows. Who cares what anybody else is saying. Also, how old is she? Her mum cant MAKE her get a restraining order out against you can she??
Good luck though