I think my boyfriend is doing drugs...?!
Question: I'm not SURE but i think he is, He has been acting strangely lately. Here are some changes i noticed.
-He is extremely paranoid, He thinks people driving behind us are fallowing us and takes like 3 or 4 turns before we go home.
-He bearly speaks
-He acts like hes not scared of anythings, well...not really acting. He isent scared of things he used to be scared of, and he drives wrecklessly which is completely unlike him, Hes usually a very carfull and careing person.
-Hes asleep almost all the time
-He doesnt want to have sex at all, MAYBE if im lucky once a week.
-And he has a very hard time concentrating and remembering things i tell him.
What drug could this be? I'm almost positive he's doing some sort of drug but i can never smell anything on him. Also how should i confront him?
We have been together a very long time and i just want him to quit whatever hes doing because its not like him. I love him i dont want to leave him.
Answers: I'm not SURE but i think he is, He has been acting strangely lately. Here are some changes i noticed.
-He is extremely paranoid, He thinks people driving behind us are fallowing us and takes like 3 or 4 turns before we go home.
-He bearly speaks
-He acts like hes not scared of anythings, well...not really acting. He isent scared of things he used to be scared of, and he drives wrecklessly which is completely unlike him, Hes usually a very carfull and careing person.
-Hes asleep almost all the time
-He doesnt want to have sex at all, MAYBE if im lucky once a week.
-And he has a very hard time concentrating and remembering things i tell him.
What drug could this be? I'm almost positive he's doing some sort of drug but i can never smell anything on him. Also how should i confront him?
We have been together a very long time and i just want him to quit whatever hes doing because its not like him. I love him i dont want to leave him.
dont be confrontational. wait until the atmosphere is relaxed and he is talkative. Start out by saying you have something you would like him to hear and you wan to say it because you love him. Then be direct, tell him the things you have listed. be very precise, he will deny it (if it is drugs) being specific makes it A LOT more difficult for him to deny. If your willing to seek help with him let him know, but also if its something serious you have to know what your limit is, and you have to be willing to stick to it, even if it means leaving him. You have to realize if it is a drug problem, you will not be able to "fix it" for him, and eventually you can find yourself in danger. Good luck, I dont envy you at all.
He has to be on drugs if he's turning sex down.
You should be talking to your boyfriend
I wish I could tell you a logical answer, however an issue such as yours will only escalate by the advise you may be told here. You don't deserve to worry.
It sounds like you have a great relationship and that you really care about your boyfriend. You may find out that he is having a hard time are work, and yes you may find out he is doing drugs, but this is a problem that needs to be brought out into the open and discussed.
I really do wish you all the best