Rock bottom?!
Question: i just moved this year in july/august. i was going into highschool so my mom thought it would be a good time to move. so far this experience has caused me more problems than i can count. its more complicated than i thought but im not going to list everything. its not really getting better becuase everytime i get friends they end up just not talking to me eventually or ditching me for other friends. plus everyone like forgot about me already in my old town. this has been the most depressing year of my life. i dont know what i want anymore. i dont know if i even want anything. i lost faith in mostly everything and everyone. this could be part of my depression but, anyone know what im going through? i just need some inspiration here.
Answers: i just moved this year in july/august. i was going into highschool so my mom thought it would be a good time to move. so far this experience has caused me more problems than i can count. its more complicated than i thought but im not going to list everything. its not really getting better becuase everytime i get friends they end up just not talking to me eventually or ditching me for other friends. plus everyone like forgot about me already in my old town. this has been the most depressing year of my life. i dont know what i want anymore. i dont know if i even want anything. i lost faith in mostly everything and everyone. this could be part of my depression but, anyone know what im going through? i just need some inspiration here.
This is normal depression for a teenager after a move. I know things are rough right now, but they will get better eventually. Find a part time job, join some clubs, join a church whatever it takes. The more active you are the less time you will have to think about how bad your life is, then one day you will look up, and find out that your life is now pretty good.
its easy to feel that way in high school
at least u look happy
Well, you should definitely just give it some time. It always takes a while to adjust at first. You're just finding love in the wrong places. Also, try to keep in touch with your hold friends in your old city. If you're still feeling really depressed, talk to your parents about ti. I bet they'll be more than willing to help.
I hope you get better soon!
Yea, the same things happened to me in school. We moved a lot. Adjustment was difficult. In time I became part of the new group, though. The only inspiration I can give you is this. Don't be worried about not having friends. You've got internet now. :)
What are your intrests? See if there is a club in your area that you can join. Maybe you can make friends with people with your own intrests.
watch a Jim Carey movie. i know that is not the best advice but it always makes me happy when i am sad.
I felt the same way in high school.
I have found that the people who were on top of the popular game in high school had that as the pinnacle. It was downhill from there. Boys and girls.
Life seriously stunk for me then, and then college was a huge world of so much better, and things are even better now.
Would you want to homeschool? I wish I had.
if you are a good person then you should be fine. let peopl know the real you. you cant f--k that up!!
I think I know how you're feeling. I'm a junior in high school, and I also felt like I also hit rock bottom (just under an hour ago, actually). I'm not doing well in my classes, I might not get to go on a trip I've been waiting for for several months, I've never had so much homework as I've had lately, there are so many distractions, etc.
It's okay to feel this way. Talk to your parents; let them know how you feel. I hope I don't seem stereotypical or arrogant when I say this, but you may want to seek a psychologist; I know in the past I have visited one a few times, and it really helps. They really do listen to you, and if you want help, they're more than happy to help you get back on your feet.
Do you have a teacher that you are particularly fond of (or one that likes you as a student) or one that you feel that you can talk to? It doesn't have to be your guidance counselor if you don't want it to. You should speak with this person (the person you feel you can talk to) as well. You might also want to talk to other people you know and are comfortable with (perhaps your priest/rabbi (or whatever you call your religious leader(s)) if you are religious; I myself am part of the Boy Scouts of America, so I have my scoutmaster and other troop leaders to talk to).
Another idea you might want to consider is looking at the many support groups available on Yahoo! Groups. I myself have not joined any of them (yet), but I have heard many good things about them.
Cheer up. Things WILL get better. (=
are u frikin serious? u call that rock bottom? pople like u seriously need a reality cheack.