Very very depressed?!
Question: I have never felt like this in my entire life. I feel sick but i'm not physically. Everyday its get worse. Eveytime I go outside someone torments me. I was on the news about a year and half ago for masturbating at work outside of the bathroom instead of in. This is whats casuing all of this. At first Id dint want to kill myself but thought i had no other choice. Now I actually want to. Please dont post any negative comments because it might push me over the egde. It would really hurt even if it was something small. Thats only because of how im feeling right now. If i wasnt feeling so bad then it wouldnt bother me. By that being put ont the news it has crushed me . There is nothing else I can do. I feel like the entire world knows me. Did you hear of what i did where your from ? I feel really bad. Any advice ?
Answers: I have never felt like this in my entire life. I feel sick but i'm not physically. Everyday its get worse. Eveytime I go outside someone torments me. I was on the news about a year and half ago for masturbating at work outside of the bathroom instead of in. This is whats casuing all of this. At first Id dint want to kill myself but thought i had no other choice. Now I actually want to. Please dont post any negative comments because it might push me over the egde. It would really hurt even if it was something small. Thats only because of how im feeling right now. If i wasnt feeling so bad then it wouldnt bother me. By that being put ont the news it has crushed me . There is nothing else I can do. I feel like the entire world knows me. Did you hear of what i did where your from ? I feel really bad. Any advice ?
First off, I've never heard of this story so don't worry about it anymore. Don't let people treat you differently anymore. Stand up for yourself, masturbating is normal and fine (just don't do it in public anymore). Go to your doctor and tell him some of your symptoms, you may have depression and medicine might help. Also, if you're really that bothered and are old enough to move away then do it. Sometimes it feels great to start over and go to a place where no one knows your past. I did that in high school when we moved to a different town. I completely changed my image and it was a good feeling. Also, remember this... just like kids get picked at recess and they feel so horrible and think everyone is laughing at them... eventually someone does something more silly and everyone forgets why they were picking on them. In other words, this to shall pass. Try to do some new activities and start volunteering, seeing people less fortunate always help one feel better about life and feel like they can make a difference. good luck and take care!
Relax. The whole world doesn't know what you did. You should talk to a therapist about your problems. I promise things will get better, but you have to be strong and seek out positive, supportive people. Please, talk to a therapist. You'll be glad you did.
If you are really depressed to the point of suicide consideration, you really need to see a therapist more than twice a week and get help. Talk to someone who you can trust, but you need to see a therapist and get help fast.
No, honey I haven't heard what you did. Just take it one day at a time. It'll blow over. I think you should be kinda 'so what?' about it. You know just kinda be like 'Hey you gotta do what you gotta do." Have that kind of attitude towards it. I think once you stop caring, everyone else will. If it bothers you that much, move outta town, get another job, I think a change in scenery is in order. I hope things go better for you hun. Good Luck and Take Care.
Ive heard several stories of men getting caught masturbating...and i doubt any of them was you. You are NOT the only one.
Have you thought about seeing a counselor, or re-locating? Its sounds to me like you really need a professional to talk to, they really can help!
Get over it, who cares what people say, everyone makes mistakes, no one in this world is perfect. Remember Bill Clinton what he went through on tv for months! He survived and so will you, You're being too hard on yourself. It will be all forgotten in time. Life goes on, cheer up and take care.
Look at it this way, this did not make national news, so you are most likely tormented within your own community. Every body masturbates, they just do, you just happened to do it at the wrong time at the wrong place. The community of prudes around you took offense and humiliated the hell out of you. Trust me there are much worse things then masturbation and in the end you made one mistake and that shouldn't be the defining moment in your life. If possible you should move, even if its just a town over or if you live in a big city just to the other side where people aren't accostomed to seeing you and will most likely not remember what you did since its been a year. Remember one thing should not ruin a whole life, and i did not hear about in Georgia, so there is at least one place you can go to not be harrassed. Everybody masturbates, you will rise above it.
i didnt hear of what you did...
look, life goes on, things will pass. people dont remember everything forever. not everyone knows you.
just because you were on the news doesnt mean that your picture will be embedded in people's minds. theres also a nice percent of people who dont watch or listen to the news at all, (including me). so dont worry,..
and as time passes, things also pass.
you can try to distract yourself with other things so you dont have to think about it. listen music, do other things,
Hi, hopefully this message will lead you and your friends to permanent happiness. It applies to anyone who doesn't trust that Jesus is God.
Jesus warned those who don't have God's forgiveness to get it immediately: "What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?" - Matthew 16:26
And he also said:
"first seek [God's] kingdom and his righteousness, and all these [things you need in life] will be given to you as well." - Matthew 6:33
You can learn how to get it by clicking the link in my profile and clicking the link n the right of my profile of that site which is linked to my free biblical guides. Look for the "gospel" download and pray to God to understand it. It's only a page and was written very easy so that even a kid with decent English language knowledge can understand it if he really wants to please God.
Once you have eternal life you automatically are in a family of countless millions and have countless friends and you will be able to help others to have eternal life or to understand or obey God better if he wills it. You will also have the ability to make close friends more easily in this life though you are not guaranteed by him to make any. You will have close friends forever however once Jesus returns.
Remember that you will be a hypocrite in God's eyes if you try to go about helping others to be moral if you aren't even forgiven of your sins. Jesus warned against such hypocrisy:
"first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." - Luke 6:42
And only God can unblind you so that you can understand his word well enough to get his forgiveness and your own eternal spirit (which no one has until they are forgiven).
Remember not to assume and not to judge by emotions over logic. If you are not careful to judge correctly like that you will end up making wrong judgments most likely and not know it until you are humiliated.
Now whether you have it or not, know this:
Sadness is a result of feeling pain, either from not obeying God (like worrying or being impatient) which causes miserable stress, or misery from something like poor nutrition, loneliness, seeing someone you care about in pain, someone being unkind to you or some mental problem caused by brain or genetic damage or too low, excessive or poisonous chemicals.
Anger is also results from feeling pain, and feeling it because you hate or hated what was good (such as God) and lost patience with him, or because you see or heard some wrong doing or saw or heard about it.
Seek God and the help from forgiven Christian friends and a doctor if necessary. I have a health guide in my biblical guides link that may help you.
If you have eternal life one day your pain will end and you will only be happy forever.
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