Help Me Before I Have A Heart Attack?!
Question: My life is terrible, I hate were I live, My mom doesn't have enough money for us to move, No one will buy our house with the conditions that its in, I'm addicted to xanga.com, And always on it. I'm trying to stop. I cry daily and my dad died and i hate everything more, School is stressfull and I effing hate phereaphists. help me, how can things get better?
Answers: My life is terrible, I hate were I live, My mom doesn't have enough money for us to move, No one will buy our house with the conditions that its in, I'm addicted to xanga.com, And always on it. I'm trying to stop. I cry daily and my dad died and i hate everything more, School is stressfull and I effing hate phereaphists. help me, how can things get better?
I am going to try and answer this as best I can, though I know with you feleing like you do it may and may not help. I know you think your life sucks right now. I know how you feel because I have been there myself. We didnt have much money, our house was not in the most greatest shape, though I choose not to turn to drugs like many do, my situation was not any better. I am now older and have a family. So your situation AND life WILL get alot better. I am going to tell you what I was once told. Always remember that if you think your life is bad then remember that there is always someone out there that is in alot worse shape than you. There are people or kids that dont have homes to live in, they dont have food to eat, nor do they have parents. I lost my dad yrs ago, Yes it was hard because it was sudden. Nobody expected it that soon. I have since lost my mom. And guess what? I survived. The main thing that has helped me in there loss is this....as a believer in Christ, I know and truely believe in what He teaches us. That being for when a loved one dies in Christ, they are not dead but "sleeping" Because we know that when Christ died for our sins and rose from the grave in that one act He conquered death. Death has no reigns over Him. So that when we either die or meet Christ in the air we will be again reunited with our loved ones. Including our parents. Wanting to over come something takes shear will power and guts. That is something we all have. I BELIEVE in you because I believe in myself. I overcame it, alot of other people overcame there problems and with that so can you. Now you need to talk to someone. If you have a friend that will listen then talk to them, but most of all tell your school councelor. They know people that can help you. But here is the catch...you have to be totally honest with them. Tell them everything no matter what. They cant help you if you hold back. Remember I believe in YOU. And as far as getting your period....dont worry about that. Nature will take its course and in time you will get it. There is nothing to be afraid of. Its the normal process in females that changes them from being girls to women. As far as you cursing your mom, if you dont like it then stop. Try thinking about what she is gong thru. Try putting yourself in her shoes. That might help you in stopping talking to her in the way you do. Because when you talk to her in that manner try to remember that its not making your and the rest of the situation better. Remember it takes will power and faith that I believe you have. Again I believe in you because I overcame and so can you. As far as not talking to someone because you think your a bad person if you do?? Well your not a bad person at all. Now by not talking to someone can and will make your situation worse. It didnt make me a bad person when I found someone to talk to and its sure NOT going to make you a bad person either. In fact it made me alot better person when I talked about it to someone.
GET OFF THE COMPUTER first and foremost.
Second GO TALK TO YOUR SCHOOL COUNSELOR. Tell them what you just posted here.
He/She can help you far more than any body on here.
Hon, you don't need to be asking for help here, you need a counselor, if you mom won't listen then try you school counsler or a good friends mom might work. You sound very depressed and rightfully so, but it doesn't have to take over your life. There is hope and help out there! Get help its better then the alternative!
ok first hormones r gonna make it worst puberty, run and do after school activities it will help and just think about the good things in ur life cuz i've had a bad life 2 prob evry1 has just think wat ur gonna be in the future study and studing will get u money and get u out of tht neighborhood. and if u need mor help just messege me i'll help u =)
Your not a bad person if you talk to someone about this,
However
IF you don't want to talk to anybody about this, then fine.
Remain a miserable little freak.
And you'll have no one but yourself to blame.
Ironic.
Your talking to people RIGHT NOW about this by asking a question. NOT ONCE has anyone said your a bad person.
So if you don't want to talk to anyone about your problems, why did you post this question?
Misery loves company and I won't join you.
Enjoy your choice.
Hope you love your miserable, horrid life that you don't want help for!!!