How to just not care about wa t others say and do me?!
Question: man i find myself stressing about what others think and say....around this time last time i was care and worry me did me and didnt give a damn about what anyone said but since my moms passed away i seem to have lost all my sefl convidence i dont talk or act the same.....i feel sad all the time n i wory i feel so lonely i have to live with ppl i dont even know and its taken a toll on me....i need more convidence so i can make major moves toward the future.....
thnx
Answers: man i find myself stressing about what others think and say....around this time last time i was care and worry me did me and didnt give a damn about what anyone said but since my moms passed away i seem to have lost all my sefl convidence i dont talk or act the same.....i feel sad all the time n i wory i feel so lonely i have to live with ppl i dont even know and its taken a toll on me....i need more convidence so i can make major moves toward the future.....
thnx
Change in life can knock down your self confidence (it happened to me after separation 6 years ago). But efffort, strong will, going back to what you used to enjoy or new activities, and maybe some outside help such as "building self confidence" or "assertiveness" courses from your local college will put you back on track.
Good luck
There should be either a minister at your local place of worship or a counselor at school.
Go to one or the other, they can help. Your mom would want you to do whatever you can to survive. There's nothing wrong with asking others for help.
Society is divided into two groups . The winner-players decide to put pressure on one person who is a loner and the group acts together to be mean. This coupled with your already sad life is bringing you down. You are not getting a serious depression because it is not about love and sex yet. Keep trying to learn more before the depression becomes too strong.