I just cut myself, i dont' know what to do?!
Question: i really don't, i'm just under so much i don't know what to do. i threw away my razor, but i feel like omwotijw
Answers: i really don't, i'm just under so much i don't know what to do. i threw away my razor, but i feel like omwotijw
I've been there. First, take a deep breath. Now believe everything I'm about to tell you. You are a person of worth. You are here on earth for a reason. You cannot see it now, but that is true and you will feel so much better later. It seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel right now, but keep moving forward. Every day when you drag yourself out of bed wondering how you are going to face another day, focus on getting through it, one moment...one second...at a time. See the beauty in life. If you see a flower, admire it. Do something good for someone and expect nothing in return. Read your Bible and pray. Eat healthy foods, stretch and go for a walk. See a counsellor or pastor/minister or talk to a close friend that you really trust and like. You sound depressed to me but depression does need to last forever. It helps to eat foods with B vitamins (beans, tofu, quiona are good sources) because B vitamins elevate your mood. It also helps to eat dark chocolate (the dark bitter stuff like Lindt 70% coco, not a candy bar) because dark chocolate is also a natural mood elevator. One day at a time. One day at a time. (hug) I cut myself a few times too, just lightly, not serious. I understand that it is a huge relief but please stop now. Cutting can get addicting and it only takes a second to cut too deep. Hang in there. ((hug))
what on earth are you talking about - did you do this intentionally or accidentially? how serious of a cut - do you need stitches - ER for that, otherwise if it isn't serious, peroxide and and triple antibiotic ointment. If this was intentional, seek psychiatric help. what does "omwotijw" mean? can't help you if we don't understand the questions.
Wow. I would definately say get involved in some sort of after school activity. That will help
You will goto hell if you kill yourself....that's what i've alway's been told. Go read a book, or rent a funny movie. Then, when you get a chance....goto the " doc " and tell them you are having problems. He'll give you some medicine. Anywho, why are you running your piehole on yahoo answers if your going to cut yourself to pieces....? Hmmm, well that's your business, GOOD LUCK.
It sounds like you need to give a call to your counselor.
Cutting yourself will not make you happier. It will only make you in more grief because of the pain. Stop cutting yourself and look into a mirror and look at yourself. You're lucky for not losing any arms or legs yet. Million of peopel out there are trying hard to live and you here are sitting or laying in bed crying and cutting yourself to death! I am not trying to scold you dear, but i just want you to know that cutting yourself and putting yourself in grief will NOT make this problem go away. Keep going to your counsellor, everyone in grief always thinks their counsellor never help.. but indeed they DO help you. You're friend is your friend. Try speaking to her, i would know the consequences because my friend has been thorugh depression also and cuts her herself until she fainted on the floor. She spoke to me and i knew she was scared that i would hate her.. but friends are there for you through thick & thin. So i stood by her and helped her through her depression. I hope you will do well in the future <3
Good Luck On Life & Smile.
life can get really stressful sometimes, it can really beat the rap out of someone, the best thing to do is to talk about it with the people that love you the most. if you just bottle up your feelings the pressure will just get worse and worse. cutting yourself is not a good way to vent, it just causes more problems. i hope this helped. and i hope that everything works out for you, and hang in there it will get better even if it looks like it wont it will =].
God bless.
listen to us, we know someone who has gone through the same things. it didnt turn out great. first of all have you told your parents? once our friend did he improved on his life in general a lot; his grades improved, he made better decisions, and he basically seemed happier. because of all this people began liking him more and gave him a second chance. hopefully you can do the same. but whatever youre going through do not feel like you shouldnt be living. i read an article about someone who attempted suicide and they survived falling from a five story building, and in their own words "as soon as they jumped they hit a realization of this solution of killing themselves being the wrong one." NUMBER ONE THING TO DO: tell a responsible adult that youre close to about all of this even if you dont know one tell your conselour.
and sorry i dont think burning your self or harming yourself in any way is going to solve anything.
You are trying to cope with all of these things that are going on with your life. I am so sorry your having such a hard time with yourself.
It is good that you can write down your feelings. That is great. Maybe you could share them with your counselor? You are hurting inside and need someone you can talk to who understands how you feel.
It also seems like your depressed too. By the way, people do self harm by burning themselves, and it does not stop .What a crappy thing to tell you...
Please, talk to someone about your feelings hun. My heart goes out to you.
u feel that way because cutting relsses endorfeins and those make u happy but they also mask pain THATS NOT GOOD GO TO A DAMN DOCTOR BEFORE U KILL UR SELF!!!!!!!
Wow, the first answerer is just full of good advice... try burning yourself... why don't you try walking out into highway traffic while your at it?
I've never had the urge to cut myself, or do any other harm such as that... but I've known people who have, and most of them did it for the attention. But it's not the kind of attention you want. Do you want people to feel sorry for you? is that what your really after, people thinking wow... this girl is F*cked up. Those scars aren't going to be attractive.
Everyone gets stressed out, depressed, upset from time to time. I've had periods that lasted over a year that I've been depressed, with just little bits of happiness in between. Sometimes I just don't feel like hanging out with my friends, or even leaving my room. But you have to force yourself to, get out there, meet new people. Get a job, I find they can give your life a lot more meaning, and make you feel like you're actually accomplishing something. Just sitting around, feeling sorry for yourself only leads to more self loathing.
As far as having low self confidence, I've noticed that quite a few girls that I know have very little, and it's often for no clear reason. Hopefully you can find someone that will boost your confidence, if you can't do it on your own. I coudln't imagine covering up my mirrors, I enjoy staring at myself for hours.
Even though it seems to me that I have quite a few friends, I have one in particular, that if I get into a fight with her, it'll throw off my whole mood, and I won't feel like doing anything with anyone, so I see where you're coming from there. If I do something stupid, not only do I have to deal with it myself, but I'll usually have her telling me what an idiot I was to boot.
Anyways. don't cut yourself again, it's really not going to accomplish anything, and in the end, only leave you looking like a fool. I sincerely hope you cheer up, and that life gets better for you :D