How to get rid of depression and loneliness?!
Question: I am 17 and in high school, and I'm highly involved in activities and I make good grades and all of that, but I feel completely invisible. I never get invited anywhere, and it's very frustrating because I have classes with all of the popular kids, and I don't fit in with them. I also feel that I have clinical depression, and I have no means of getting help because my parents don't want for me to see a doctor about it. They think I can control it. If I could I wouldn't have had this for 3 years. I don't know what to do and I don't want to be the promising teen who commits suicide or does something stupid to ruin everything, but I really don't know what to do to make myself feel better. I have no one to turn to. Everyone is tired of hearing me say I need help and I can't help it, and everything is falling on deaf ears. What do I do? I try making new friends and being more outgoing and all of that, but I'm just blown off and ignored. I'm just the nice girl who is disposable. What do I do?
Answers: I am 17 and in high school, and I'm highly involved in activities and I make good grades and all of that, but I feel completely invisible. I never get invited anywhere, and it's very frustrating because I have classes with all of the popular kids, and I don't fit in with them. I also feel that I have clinical depression, and I have no means of getting help because my parents don't want for me to see a doctor about it. They think I can control it. If I could I wouldn't have had this for 3 years. I don't know what to do and I don't want to be the promising teen who commits suicide or does something stupid to ruin everything, but I really don't know what to do to make myself feel better. I have no one to turn to. Everyone is tired of hearing me say I need help and I can't help it, and everything is falling on deaf ears. What do I do? I try making new friends and being more outgoing and all of that, but I'm just blown off and ignored. I'm just the nice girl who is disposable. What do I do?
I went through this myself. It's a long story, and not something I could talk about in on online forum. I sort of cured my own depression, but now have other issues that I deal with on a daily basis. I would never go back though. I still sometimes feel depressed, but that has seemed to have gotten less and less over time in adapting to my new surroundings.
You need help, find someone to talk to.
join school sports u will defanetly make some friend s there
There are alot of people out there that are paid to listen for that kind of problem that you can call. They are professional and they will try to help you.
wen i read this it felt as if i was lookin at my self two years ago my self what im going to tell you icant say on this site so ill jus email you okai.
don`t lisen to popular people they don`t have brains.
And u do. Get a boyfriend that cares uno. Talk more to friends and other kids that are nice UNO
well im 13 and i've felt lonely as well. i hav many friends but my best friend seems like she's ignoring me and being more best friends with my number 2 friend. i was backstabbed by my ex and i keep feeling like this was all my fault, that i caused this to happen, but i block those thoughts out of my head so that i could feel more happiness and not be sad. i recommend that u should do something that u love first, like a hobby. when im doing something that i love i forget everything and i just don't see that sadness blur my way. what makes me happy is my older sister. i think that love is the key to happiness. a love for anything, books, animals, a love for someone. i hope my answer helps u because i was depressed just yesterday and now i feel like im the queen of the world. oh and your parents, i think they're so wrong. its like they're telling u "SNAP OUT OF IT!!!" but i guess they just don't understand. if u feel like it's not possible then u could talk to me on my email. waynokoko@yahoo.com. i check my email everyday so don't be scared of a 13 year old. i look forward to talkin to u. ;]