I think I am a very weird 16 year old...?!
Question: I am very confused. I think I have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) without the suicidal and drinking and family anger crap. I have very bad abandonment issues, to where it is so bad I can sleep in a room if I'm alone. I have no clue what's wrong. I am still highly terrified of the dark, too. I feel like I don't mean anything half of the time, and it is very hard to socialize because I fear rejection. I'm also scared of stating opinions and asking questions. I would really like to know what's wrong with me. Could it be a psychological problem?
Answers: I am very confused. I think I have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) without the suicidal and drinking and family anger crap. I have very bad abandonment issues, to where it is so bad I can sleep in a room if I'm alone. I have no clue what's wrong. I am still highly terrified of the dark, too. I feel like I don't mean anything half of the time, and it is very hard to socialize because I fear rejection. I'm also scared of stating opinions and asking questions. I would really like to know what's wrong with me. Could it be a psychological problem?
You are not weird at all, everyone has problems that does not mean you are strange. And do not call your self strange, you have to love yourself first of all. No matter what you have been through, no matter what kind of family issues you have or have to face, you can overcome them. Start going to the library and reading up on these disorders you think you have. Talk to your school nurse or school social worker they have great resources and can help you. I suggest you getting into some sort of support group where you can talk about the things that are going on with you. If you believe in God going to church would be a good idea. Read the bible also it speaks of God's love for us. You are a wonderful person created in God's image and no you are not weird. You are unique and beautiful and you need to start telling yourself every day how beautiful and wonderful you are. And encourage yourself, when ever you get down in the dumps or scared remember that you are strong because you have made it this far. And you can make it if you try. Remember that there is always someone out there worst off than you, start volunteering for the hospital to hold drug addicted babies, or in the burn unit where kids need someone to talk to. Sometimes if we busy ourselves and help others we see just how great life really is. Good luck and God bless you!
You're smart to realize you might have a problem, I would suggest seeing a mental health professional as soon as possible, good luck.
Could be anxiety. Talk to a doctor about your feelings they may be able to help you.
You're fine...you are being a 16 year old girl.
Everybody in our myth-addicted, ego-reflective society thinks they have a "mental disorder" or "personality disorder". How do you think the pharmeceutical industry makes money? There is nothing wrong with you. Don't let society and other people tell you that there is no matter how alone you feel. In this world, as long as you don't kill anyone or harm children, you can safely assume that you are "mentally healthy". Don't start taking medication because they damage your brain in the long term. Screw society. Sigmund Fraud
it sounds mostly like a reaction to something scary in your childhood.
my mother had BPD, and you don't sound anywhere weird enough.
about the anger - you might check schizoid or schizotypal on wikipedia. don't freak - it is not at all like schizophrenia - but it fits well with some of your symptoms. it goes with anger that comes out of nowhere really well. and having trouble with things that change at the last minute.
It could be that you were abused as a child...have PTSD...are depressed with anxiety...and need the help of a therapist and, perhaps, some medications. Anger management classes can also be useful, if your anger is a real problem. Please get some help and don't hide from it anymore.
girl, there's nothing really wrong with you. It's a teenager thing and i feel stupid cause im only 17 but you have to be confident, you dont have to listen to other's comments. If you know deep within yourself that you're right, then who can change your mind. You should hang out with your friends and be a little implsive. dont let others put you down. Just be fierce..lol...know that if you care for yourself others will see it and respect you more. Most of the time (if you do good in your studys) those who talk about others will end up as bums.....so get it girl!
u might have a anxiety/panic disorder. it can't hurt to see a psychologist. nothing to be ashamed about and i bet u'll feel better. i've gone through it myself so if u need any questions feel free to email me. im 24 so if u want to talk to someone younger i also understand.
I'm just putting this link in for those of us who don't understand what "Borderline Personality Disorder" is.
Did you mean.."can " sleep...or "can't" sleep alone? Maybe other people don't make you comfortable around them. If that's the case..they are the ones who are wrong. Seems like you want to please others too much. Don't put others on a pedestal. People are just people.
What makes you think that you have BPD ? Do you do too much of Internet research ? You may just have excessive anxiety which can be easily treated and cured. I do not think it is any psychological problem.
You're a normal child. Everyone goes through this. I think you should find a cousin or Aunt/Uncle to talk to. I'm not saying parents, because if you felt this way and felt comfortable talking to them, you wouldn't feel so alone.
I felt that way at age 16 (and up), as well. I am now 37. I have done a lot of self examining over the years. I never went to see a therapist, but should have. Try speaking with your school counselor or religious leader if you have one. Stay away from drugs (both legal and illegal), they will probably mess you up more.
sounds like you have paranoia. your always afraid something bad will go wrong then thats probably what it is. and yes it is a psychological problem but if you can focus you'll over come it. good luck