Please open. lost my virginity. i need answers!!?!

Please open. lost my virginity. i need answers!!?

Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time, he put it in me once, and took it out right away he didnt use a condom, he didnt ejaculate since the day before, so there couldnt be sperm left over in pre come cuz he peed. and we dont think there was any pre come could i be pregnant? we are both 16, i know thats young its been 9 days since my last period and i have very regular periods.

1. i dont know my facts, a lot of you are right. well thats because when i did my research there were SO many different answers.

2. im not here to be judged. i dont wanna hear ur answers if you are careless enough to make this harder for me. i know what i did wasnt smart, but i just need answers. please, educate me, i need it.

3. im not a s l u t me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. and im the first girl he ever made out with. so there are no diseases.

3 weeks ago
he came five minutes later during a bj.

3 weeks ago
i have not missed my period yet. i still have like 17 days to go..

3 weeks ago
there was no motion.

You need to wait until your period is due before you worry ( and worry always seems to keep the period away!). Unless I am mis-reading and you are 9 days late.

You are young and scared. That is understandable, but you need to have some one older and knowledgable you can confide in. An older sister, a school counselor, a friend of the family- someone. Yahoo wont hold you hand and give you the comfort you need.

My final suggestions- When you period IS late- buy a prenancy test. (I would go as far away from my own neighborhood as I could get!)

Find a free clinic. They can counsel you and give you honest medical advice. Some may even give you birth control pills.

Take care of yourself. Sex can be fun and loving, but always use birth control. Even if you are on the pill, still have him use a condom. Thats what I did when I was young- always used both. I am old and married now and just use the pill.

I would be happy to do whatever I can to help you if you want to hear the voice of experience ( I still remember my first pregnancy scare.)

Ps- having sex with your boyfriend does NOT make you a ****!

Good luck!