How long roughly does first time sex last..?!
Question:
How long roughly does first time sex last..?
Im 16 female and a virgin but im curious how long first times last.. some of my friends have said between 10-60 seconds?? That seems like a really short amount of time, but i suppose its how long you can take the pain for? if there is pain.
Answers:
For women, often it can take 5-20 minutes to reach orgasm, and you may not be able to reach it through penetration alone.
Guys, on the other hand, especially very young guys, often orgasm within 1-2 minutes. As they get older they learn to control it, and some of us can go indefinetely with practice.
All that being said, including any foreplay, which often plays a big role in a woman's orgasm, an "average" time for the whole event is probably 10-15 minutes - unless you're Sting.
To help with pain, have your partner go slowly, and consider using some sort of lubricant.
Then again, consider waiting a couple years too!