Masturbation instructions videos on the internet for women?!
Question:
Masturbation instructions videos on the internet for women?
my kid is at an age where she told me she likes to have pleasure but wants to know how. I cant tell her so i rather give her a vid. please help
Answers:
You could show your daughter a video, but I think that would be detrimental, and let me tell you why. No, it's not because you'd be showing her sexually explicit material- please, c'mon, what kid hasn't seen at least something on the Internet. And moreover, that stuff isn't damaging.
No, I don't think you should be showing her a video like that because it will teach her a specific way to masturbate. It's the same way that telling her to masturbate would be strange, because what feels good for you might not necessarily feel good for her. The best way for her to discover pleasure is to explore her own body and try different things to see what makes HER feel good. Nobody else can tell her- or any woman- how to experience pleasure. Oh sure, tips and hints can be given, but in the end, it's about self-exploration.
Still, if you want to help her, here are the best resources out there- sex-positive, woman-friendly advice:
* Betty Dodson's film "Orgasmic Women". It's amazing. Buy it here: http://bettydodson.com/merchant2/merchan...
* The Website Clitical.com. All about female masturbation, it's the best website out there. Tell her about it and let her browse.
* The book "I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide" by Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller. It's one of the great books out there- conversational and informative.
The combination of these three resources should give her all the answers she needs.
Hope that helps.