Oral sex... what should I do when he's about to climax?!


Question: Oral sex... what should I do when he's about to climax?
I'm new to oral sex and sex in general. I gave my boyfriend oral a few days ago but I live with my parents and two siblings and we just had to stop because of people wandering around nearby. This, weekend, he has his house to himself and I promised I would give him oral again and that I would swallow. I'm just nervous about how to handle that moment, what I should do so that it feels good etc. Any advice would be appreciated :)

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Don't be caught by surprise when he shoots his load. It will taste bad so be ready to accept it. Remember it's not harmful and he will love you for it. The last thing you want to do is to get grossed out, stop, and start spitting. That would make him feel bad and you don't want that. You can tell him it tastes bad but do that after you swallow.



Have fun with him and his penis. Get to know all sides of it. If you look like you are enjoying playing with him, he will like the whole experience better. Don't make it look like work.
For your first few times, you could probably compromise with your boyfriend and let him climax on your chest or belly. Guys like boobs.
Later when you know him and his penis better, you can let him finish in your mouth. The taste is odd, a lot like the first time you eat a raw oyster. After a couple times you get to know what to expect.
Don't forget to let him know that oral sex is a two way street, and you like to be the recipient occasionally too.



That's sweet of you to offer to him, you must like him!

My suggestion: keep going and then you have to make sure to umm...catch it, so to minimize the mess. A tap on the shoulder when he's ready or a sign would be optimal, so you're not caught off guard, LOL. Also - you don't have to swallow. It's called a sink if you're nearby one; I'm sure he won't be offended. You still have to taste it, which will be variable depending on diet and how often he has ejaculated recently.

Regarding the sink option: Your mouth gets a workout anyway; it'll probably feel nice to take a cool swish of water, and tidy your hair, etc. In the meantime, he can tidy himself up too, etc.



When he starts to moan, put your tongue out and jerk him off slowly till he starts cumming all over your tongue, keeping eye contact with him the whole time. When he's done, maintain eye contact and keep your ***-covered tongue out to show him the mind-blowingly explicit sexual impact of what he's just done to you. It'll drive him insane, if you're nasty enough to do it.



Okay, first, don't worry about it feeling good, trust me, it will feel good as long as you don't use your teeth. Second, ask him to tell you when he's going to ***, that way you can prepare yourself. If you want to swallow, just keep him in your mouth and let him blow his load and swallow as you receive it. That's what my GF does and she loves it. -- Brenda Moris...where on earth did you get told that sperm can lodge in your lungs? That's total nonsense.



Well, I bet anything you do will feel good to him, so don't worry too much about that. Have him tell you when he is about to ejaculate, that way you will be ready for it and it won't be a surprise. At that point you just keep going until he blows his load. If you have never tasted it before, you might be in for a shock, so just be ready for that.



Some people like the taste some don't. I've developed a taste for it (pun intended) but it took awhile. If you swallow it down in one gulp you can barely taste it and the aftertaste goes away quickly. If it really bothers you, you can always spit. I'm sure he won't mind that much.



well if you have to promise him, he is probably pressuring you into it. If you don't want to swallow or even give oral at all, then don't. If he really loves you, he'd respect you and not have you promise anything.



It is better to not get sperm in the mouth. They can lodge in the lungs swimming to find the ovum and there they set up problems for you. Nice of you to be willing to be kind to him, but you would do better to not take it orally.

RN



Brace yourself.

It tastes nasty. Like lemon juice and bleach together.

Brenda Morris, that's ridiculous.



Suck it like a straw.

girlfriend



when he's about to climax, point it at his face! hahaha jk :)



Don't know how good its going to feel for you, but hes going to love it!
Advice.....duck!



You will catch HPV Cancer from that $hit!



Put this in men's health, they'll know better than us.



man like when you deep throat and slob on it




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