anal sex makes me feel nauseous?!


Question: Anal sex makes me feel nauseous?
My boyfriend and I have just started experimenting with anal sex. He will put it in, and it feels fine. Then we will start having sex and it doesn't hurt or anything, but there's this weird pressure inside that makes me feel super nauseous. Like literally, I will tear up and beg him to stop before I start crying. I want to do this because he likes it and because I think I will like it eventually, but how do I get over this sick feeling and what is it?

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What you are feeling comes from his penis pressing on your intestines. It is a pretty common side effect of anal intercourse. In other words, it just happens to some people.

There are things you can try, starting with having him both slow down and just not go as deep. If he can keep his thrusts to about half the length of his penis, he will still get 99 percent of the same pleasure, because you will still be stimulating the two most sensitive areas on the penis (the head and the frenum on the underside). But my not going as deep or as hard, he may be able to avoid the areas that make you feel nauseous.

It might also help to avoid eating a lot before you have anal sex, and to clean yourself out with an enema about an hour in advance. Basically, if there is less in your digestive track, there will be less to hit against.

But I have to be honest here. Not every woman learns to enjoy anal sex. In fact, although studies show that about 1/3 of women try it at some point, fewer than half of those women continue to have it as a regular part of their sex lives. The others mostly give it up. You may be like that. If so, your boyfriend will just have to accept it. (You might be able to save anal for a special once-in-a-blue-moon treat for him.) But try the ideas above and see if that helps. I wish you well.



If you're not comfortable, don't do it. No matter how much he likes it. But if you want to, you can work your way up to it. Start with a smaller dildo and a lot of lube and work up to a size similar to that of his penis. If you can do it with the dildo and not feel nauseous, then let him do it and tell him to try it slowly. Tell him to be gentle and if it happens again, stop.



Well honestly, anal doesn't really feel good. It just feels weird, kind of like you've got to you know what. Especially when they really start going.

All I can say is you'll get used to it. But that's how it is. And btw, only do what you like to do as well, and your guy has no right to be disappointed if you don't do it.



The anus is not the ideal recipient of penile penetration. Its structure is simply inferior to the vagina for that purpose.

Put it where its meant to go!



wow your bf must love but any way me and my girlfriend had the same problem just have him slow down and not as deep but if your two git it right i have been told it feels amazing and not just for gays lol



Wow, your boyfriend must have a gigantic dick. It's probably piercing your lung.




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