To all girls out there - Was it my fault?????? :-(?!
Question: To all girls out there - Was it my fault!?!?!?!?!?!? :-(!?
I want girls to answer this coz i think u would understand me better!.
Me, my husband and my baby were walkingto the park today, i was pushin the pram and the same direction a lady was coming pushin her babys pushchair!. She stopped and gave me way to go past, i was just about to say thank you when the lady made a psychastic remark saying "thanks very much alot" and the other lady with her started laughing, i kept walkin and said F OFF, they ladies were kep mouthin on but i ignored them and kept walking!.
My husband wasnt sure what happened so i explained to him and instead of him sticking up for me he was sticking up for them, i was really upset about that and we started arguing, he was actually shouting at me in the park and people were watching!.
Do u think i did something wrong!?!?!?!?!?!?
Would anyone else in my position had done the same thing!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I just dont like people showing me attitude for no reason and now me and hubby arent talking!. im just very upsetWww@Answer-Health@Com
Me, my husband and my baby were walkingto the park today, i was pushin the pram and the same direction a lady was coming pushin her babys pushchair!. She stopped and gave me way to go past, i was just about to say thank you when the lady made a psychastic remark saying "thanks very much alot" and the other lady with her started laughing, i kept walkin and said F OFF, they ladies were kep mouthin on but i ignored them and kept walking!.
My husband wasnt sure what happened so i explained to him and instead of him sticking up for me he was sticking up for them, i was really upset about that and we started arguing, he was actually shouting at me in the park and people were watching!.
Do u think i did something wrong!?!?!?!?!?!?
Would anyone else in my position had done the same thing!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I just dont like people showing me attitude for no reason and now me and hubby arent talking!. im just very upsetWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
He should have stuck up for you, been on your side, i think you were in the right, and good to walk off, dont worry about any of them :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well as you was going to say thanks!.
I dont think it is no!.
I think its the ladies fault who said thanks very much, there was no need for it and she shouldn't have jumped the gun!?
It was rude!.
But, i do think that it is a silly thing to argue with your husband about and you shouldnt think that just bcasue he is your husband he is going to agree with everything you say because thats not true but i do think you was riht in this case but maybe shouldnt have told them to **** off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dont think it is no!.
I think its the ladies fault who said thanks very much, there was no need for it and she shouldn't have jumped the gun!?
It was rude!.
But, i do think that it is a silly thing to argue with your husband about and you shouldnt think that just bcasue he is your husband he is going to agree with everything you say because thats not true but i do think you was riht in this case but maybe shouldnt have told them to **** off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband shouldn't have started an argument in public, however some girls comments here are silly!. Just because he's your husband does not mean he has to agree with everything you say and do!. He just shouldn't have done that in public!.
You should never had said "F OFF"!.
Regarding the pram and the pushchair, SHE gave YOU a way to go past!. Her sarcastic remark was not needed, but you did not need to reply the way you did!.
So, if I were in your position, I would have just ignored them and NOT said "F OFF"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should never had said "F OFF"!.
Regarding the pram and the pushchair, SHE gave YOU a way to go past!. Her sarcastic remark was not needed, but you did not need to reply the way you did!.
So, if I were in your position, I would have just ignored them and NOT said "F OFF"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You weren't in the wrong at all!. You said the lady stopped to let you go past!. She's in the wrong for letting you go past, then being sarcastic and then laughing at you!.
Men suck sometimes!. Maybe he feels like he wanted to be the one to look after you instead of you sticking up for yourself!.
But try not to worry!. You weren't in the wrong at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Men suck sometimes!. Maybe he feels like he wanted to be the one to look after you instead of you sticking up for yourself!.
But try not to worry!. You weren't in the wrong at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'd of done exactly the same as you!.
Your husband is in the wrong and has no right to be like this!.
In fact if i was in your shoes i would be extremely p!ssed off with him for causing a scene and shouting at me!.
Let him stew, calm down and state in no uncertain terms he was out of order and until he apologises he can keep himself to himself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband is in the wrong and has no right to be like this!.
In fact if i was in your shoes i would be extremely p!ssed off with him for causing a scene and shouting at me!.
Let him stew, calm down and state in no uncertain terms he was out of order and until he apologises he can keep himself to himself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
of corse u didnt do anything and there is that song stand by ur man , what about stand by your woman and if you where about to say thanx they are bieng the ignorent ones i cant belive your husband would agree with them so really its those woeman and ur husband who were wrong not u if it was me i wouldnt put up with him doing that if i get voted top answer plz tell me what happend and iff it all worked out!. x:-DWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would have said the same thing to those women!. You did not do anything wrong to them they let you pass them!. You would have thought they were being nice until they had a ***** moment!.
As for you man he should have had you back no matter what!. Even if he didn't agree with you he could have said lets talk about this when we get home!. There was no need for he to put you conversation out there for the world to hear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for you man he should have had you back no matter what!. Even if he didn't agree with you he could have said lets talk about this when we get home!. There was no need for he to put you conversation out there for the world to hear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If i was with my kids i woudn't be hostile to others in public because it could get violent and i wouldn;t want them in harms way, also i wouldn;t want them seeing me behave like that!. If i was alone or with friends i may say something but i wouldn;t swear!. I don't really know what to say because none of you shoudl have acted the way you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sweety, i would hav probly said the same thing, women can be so bitchy some times! And to be honest your husband wasnt even there, so he cant just jump to sides! And i cant belive he aint talking to ya over such a small thing!Surely he aint that petty!!? Dw, everything will sort its self out just give it time!Ur huby will realise how silly it is!:)!. And as for the whole not taking attitude for no reason thing!.!.!.hell yeh i agree gal!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband is being a dick !.!.!. he should be on your side even if it was your fault or you were the one flappin' at the jaw!. But no, it doesn't sound like this was your fault !.!.!. sound like them hussy's just didn't have anything better to do than stir up ****!. Their husbands were probably out ******* some other broad so they were jelous when they saw that yours was with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you didn't do anything wrong, your husband is over reacting and seems he might have more on his plate to have gone of like that!. don't say sorry just try to talk to him and see why he over reated and stuck up for themWww@Answer-Health@Com
well they shouldn't have shown you attitude, but you should have known better than to have said f off to complete strangers, in public!. I would have just ignored them completely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should talk with ur hubby before it gets worse you should tell him what u did wrong and appoligize and say im sorry it was my foult what can i do to help! next time just keep the comments to your self!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you shouldnt have said F OFF in public to some strangers!. just ignore the idiots and get on with life!. but your husband shouldnt have shouted at you i guess!. hope it all goes okayWww@Answer-Health@Com
You should rise above morons like this, I totally agree with chucklyb - your husband shouldn't have shouted at you either and he shouldn't be acting like a child by not speaking to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No Not at all love!. Your husbands wrong , Maybe f off was a little strong!. But people say things without thinking and its very hard to keep anger inside of you especially when being laughted at!.
Don't worry Love!. : )Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't worry Love!. : )Www@Answer-Health@Com
she should have let you say thank you, she sounds like a cow to me, and your husband shouldn't have taken her side! hope you feel better soon xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Obviously they were not nice people - I would not have sunk to their level - I often find that annoys people like that even more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would have done the same! Good on you, just kick his butt!.!. haha!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont worry!. i wuld have done the same thing!Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow men, you just gotta hate them!!
im not a lesbo if you are wondering,lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
im not a lesbo if you are wondering,lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey Maybe you shouldn't of said F Off in the park but that was no reason for your husband to start having ago at you in public, and if you were going to say thanks then that's fine but I don't see why your husband is upset at you cos you said F Off!?
I personally wouldn't worry about him just ignore him and then go for a walk in the park again soon on your own and then he will feel up tight about you not asking him to go with you, he will soon apologise!.
Good Luck HunWww@Answer-Health@Com
I personally wouldn't worry about him just ignore him and then go for a walk in the park again soon on your own and then he will feel up tight about you not asking him to go with you, he will soon apologise!.
Good Luck HunWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well to be honest you were all wrong!.
The other lady should not have made that sarcastic remark!. She should have given you the chance to say thanks
YOU should not have swore!. You were with your child and in a few months they will be picking up the words you say so be careful!. Also there would have been other children around and I bet their parents would not have been happy about you using lanuage like that around them!.
Your husband should not have shouted at you in public!. He does not have to agree with everything you did but at the end of the day rowing in public is not good!.
The best thing to do is talk to your husband, and explain that even though you should not have swore at the lady, he had no right to talk to you like that in public!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The other lady should not have made that sarcastic remark!. She should have given you the chance to say thanks
YOU should not have swore!. You were with your child and in a few months they will be picking up the words you say so be careful!. Also there would have been other children around and I bet their parents would not have been happy about you using lanuage like that around them!.
Your husband should not have shouted at you in public!. He does not have to agree with everything you did but at the end of the day rowing in public is not good!.
The best thing to do is talk to your husband, and explain that even though you should not have swore at the lady, he had no right to talk to you like that in public!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off I should state this!. In a marriage there will be fights, its the way of life!. a healthy marriage has some fights but not a lot!. thats the thing, society has said that an argument was horrible for a marriage!. but if you don't argue what is there to learn off of!. It really isn't any ones fault the women where rude!. They started the fight, your husband has no idea what happened as you said!. He probably mis interpreted what you told him!. Best thing to really do is this - Forget about it, its over with now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i don't think either of you ladies did anything "wrong"!. unfortunately it was just a case of misinterpreted communication!.
the other lady obviously thought you were pushing through and wasn't going to say thank you!. were as, you were grateful for her moving and was going to say thank you!.
if you think, what if you had moved over and she hadn't said thanks!? wouldn't you think, "well, she was rude" and feel like shouting "oi, say thank you!"!.
don't let it bother you!. if you're worried about the same thing happening again, just smile at people as they approach!. this puts people at ease and they're less likely to think you are being rude!.
with regards to your husband, sometimes men don't understand that we need comforting and for them to stick up for us!. don't let anyone drive a wedge in your relationship though, give him a hug and tell him you love him, i'm sure the incident will soon be forgotten about!.
i know its hard sometime but try not to let other peoples behaviour bother you too much!. a lot of people can be self involved at some point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the other lady obviously thought you were pushing through and wasn't going to say thank you!. were as, you were grateful for her moving and was going to say thank you!.
if you think, what if you had moved over and she hadn't said thanks!? wouldn't you think, "well, she was rude" and feel like shouting "oi, say thank you!"!.
don't let it bother you!. if you're worried about the same thing happening again, just smile at people as they approach!. this puts people at ease and they're less likely to think you are being rude!.
with regards to your husband, sometimes men don't understand that we need comforting and for them to stick up for us!. don't let anyone drive a wedge in your relationship though, give him a hug and tell him you love him, i'm sure the incident will soon be forgotten about!.
i know its hard sometime but try not to let other peoples behaviour bother you too much!. a lot of people can be self involved at some point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com