I dont think any of this will happen to me?!


Question: I am 13. I dont have my period. My breasts are ish size. All my friends have their period. And most have bigger boobs and skinner. But even the ones with smaller boobs have gotten their period before me. Everyday is someone new, and it's getting old and making me frustrated. While they're being "women" i am stuck being a little kid. And what makes it worse is that they all look better than me in bathing suits. It makes me mad. My mom got her period at 11, my sister at 11-12, and my grandma at 10. Will anything EVER happen to me


Answers: I am 13. I dont have my period. My breasts are ish size. All my friends have their period. And most have bigger boobs and skinner. But even the ones with smaller boobs have gotten their period before me. Everyday is someone new, and it's getting old and making me frustrated. While they're being "women" i am stuck being a little kid. And what makes it worse is that they all look better than me in bathing suits. It makes me mad. My mom got her period at 11, my sister at 11-12, and my grandma at 10. Will anything EVER happen to me

Calm down. Think about this. Can you see yourself at 35 with a pre-pubescent body? No, because it doesn't happen to anyone. If nothing happens by the time you're 16, see a doctor, but 13 is perfectly normal. It is a little unusual that your mother and grandmother were early bloomers and you're not, though, so I would go get checked out anyway, since you may be having a physical response to excessive excersize or stress.

Not having your period does not make you a little kid. Absolutely nothing changes in your intellectual development or maturity level when you get your period. All that happens is that you become physicaly able to have a baby (though you shouldn't have one any time soon), and you now have to deal with your body basically being posessed until you are in your 50s.

Yes it will happen. You just need to give it time. Every female develops at different rates. You will get your period soon enough.
A female can begin their period anywhere between 8 or 18 years of age. There is no need to worry.

yes dont worry i got mine right before i turned 14... my best friend didn't even get hers until she turned 15... dont worry you'll get your period soon.

boobs are not that important. and once you get your period you will hate it and not want it anymore! Be thankful you didnt get it yet I had mine at ten and I curse it every month. Its only necessary for reproduction and you dont want any babies anyways

Oh sweetie, I'm sorry you've got to deal with this kinda thing. I have to tell you though....I got mine at 10 and I totally felt out of place. I've had them for 10 years now, and although I'm used to it, I still can't stand it. Everyone matures at their own pace. Be patient - and be glad that you don't have to worry about leaks and things of the sort like they do - or having your bra strap snapped by the boys! (I know...crude humor but thought it might help brighten it up a little for ya). Don't worry hun, you'll get it =)

of course it will, give it time, your only 13. and when u do get it u will wish u never had it!!!

trust me i had the same problems about 5 months ago!!! i felt like everyone in the world looked better than me b/c they had their period and i didnt!!

that all changed when i started loving me for me adn being ok with the way i look, because i know it will happen, it just takes time!!

so my advice is to love ur body, because even though you hate it right now, it will change, its just not ready!
periods have nothing to do with it, i've learned, some people develop breasts before their period, adn some after
when you get ur period, i'm sure it will be a wonderful day, as it should be, so waiting for it makes it that much more special!

It will when it's supposed to.

Read more here: http://www.kotex.com

Could be you are just a late bloomer.





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