What to do about sex?!
Question: tomorrow i am having sex for the first time and i was just wondering how it feels and how bad and long it will hurt
Answers: tomorrow i am having sex for the first time and i was just wondering how it feels and how bad and long it will hurt
The experience is different for each person. Some females say it was painful or even very painful. Some say it was not painful at all or mildly uncomfortable.
You have to be ready physically and mentally. Have lots of foreplay to get yourself stimulated and for your vagina to become lubricated. If your not into things mentally then it's not going to be very pleasurable.
Don't expect an orgasm the first time or even other times (another topic). Your guy should take his time and both if you should use birth control (yes, both!).
Your guy may have to add additional lubrication to himself so that he can enter you more easily.
If it's just too painful for you, then stop. Sometimes it just doesn't work out (clumsiness, anxiety, etc.)
you sure your ready for that?
Use lots of lubricant. KY warming gel/lubricant, whatever. It may hurt a bit at first, you may bleed a little. Use a condom and lots of lube. You'll be fine :) Just relax and your muscles will relax. Sometimes being on top gives you more control of the angle and depth of penetration, so you can move up and down on him and change it up if it starts to hurt you.
Uhm it hurts really bad && its last a long time. lol sorry but its true
it does hurt the first time and the second time just be soft and gentle use plenty of lube and make sure u use a condom
Ok, are you sure you are ready to do this? Because if your questions are will it hurt/how long will it last/etc...it doesn't sound like you're doing it because you're really excited about it or in love, but because the other person wants to do it. IF you are doing it for the first time (and it's his first time also) it won't last very long and might be kind of awkward...if he has had sex before, it will probably last longer. Just try (if possible) not to be nervous, and use some type of lubricant like KY Jelly, as that will make it hurt less. And PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE use a condom...
It's not going to be completely painless. If this is someone you are completely comfortable with you should have no problem talking to him about the following. I suggest you use a lubricant and I wouldn't get crazy with your first time (scented, flavored, warming, tingling, etc.). Also, tell him to ease into it. Slow initial penetration and him not going after you like a rabbit will help a ton. It also helps if he warms you up properly...relaxes you..if he uses his fingers first it won't come as a complete shock when the sex starts. Just relax and take it slow; after all it is your first time and you have the rest of your life to be adventurous. :)