Finding G-spot from inside?!
Question: I'm 23 and married. My husband and I have been together 8 years (only married 2) and sexually active all 8 years. When we have sex, the only way I orgasm is if I'm on top and grind on him. The sensation comes from the outside of my vagina towards the front. Anyone have any tips on how to find the G-spot from the inside so I don't always have to be on top in order to orgasm.
Answers: I'm 23 and married. My husband and I have been together 8 years (only married 2) and sexually active all 8 years. When we have sex, the only way I orgasm is if I'm on top and grind on him. The sensation comes from the outside of my vagina towards the front. Anyone have any tips on how to find the G-spot from the inside so I don't always have to be on top in order to orgasm.
The outside means you are probably having clitoral orgasms, not G-spot orgasms.
The G-spot is not hard to find.
Picture this:
You're laying on your back, and he's in front of you, like he's going to go down on you (which is a good thing to do while he's doing what I'm about to suggest!).
He sticks his finger inside of you, palm facing up towards the ceiling, and does a "come here" curling motion with his finger (like he's trying to scratch an itch there... which reminds me, have him cut and buff his fingernails!).
If he keeps doing this for a bit, under the skin, the g-spot will swell up just a bit.
This is not way far in, it's not so deep that he can't easily get to it with his finger.
When it starts to get stimulated, you're going to have the urge to pee.
If you REALLY have to pee, go pee, then come back, but this is normal to feel this, even if you don't.
You HAVE TO go past that feeling, or you won't have a G-spot orgasm.
The best position for intercourse, is you on the end of the bed, in this position, with him standing at the foot of the bed.
As he enters you, he should try to have as steep an angle going as possible - like he's trying to hit the ceiling with his wang.
If you want more specifics, PM me!
(I'm a guy, by the way)
It can be hard to stimulate by penetration in other positions. The g-spot is a small rough area of skin a couple of inches in and on the top front. It can be stimulated during forplay for a great orgasm. He could also press and massage your abdomen just above the pelvis during penetration in other positions. This will help stimulate the g-spot a lot. Another trick is the UFO, or ultimate female orgasm, which is a combination of g-spot and clitoris. It is done by alternating the stimulation between the two, and then both right before and during orgasm. I do it by fingers, and add oral at times to the clitoris.
He ( or you ) could also stimulate your clitoris during intercourse, as well as working the g-spot. These methods will give you and your husband some things to try, and enjoy!!!
your 23 and youve been together for 8 years congrats!
Usually the G-spot is on the front wall of the vagina, on top of a 'ledge' about 2 - 3 inches in. With him on top his penis would need to be a steep banana shape (like some vibrators) to rub against it consistently enough.
Try various angles with him behind you. Short, gentle thrusts might be most effective.
It might help if you were both to feel, learn and think about your individual shapes, and so be able to visualise what's happening inside, leading to greater accuracy.
Also, as you get more aroused it's normal for the vagina to change shape. You might also find that the ledge is less pronounced if you have more foreplay.
Ax
.
2 ideas:
Get a "G spot" vibrator with the curve at the end so you can insert it, but it pushes up against the under-side of the clitoral sponge.
Husband: Lay back and have him insert 2 very clean and well lubed fingers. Feeling along the under side is a seam he should start rubbing and moving in while giving oral from the outside.
Eventually he should find a spot at which you say "oh yeah...right there...". He may have to rub and lift very hard as it sometimes takes a 'forklift' technique to rub things right.
Dont get freaked that getting an orgasm this way is somehow wrong. Any sexual activity between you and Hubby is 'sex' and you should not limit yourself to thinking that penetration is the only way. (Trust me - he wont be disappointed if you tried oral on him a lot.)
Another idea: Doggy style with him pushing into you from above can often stimulate the gspot. (Above pushing down, not just from behind.)
Another idea: Put 2 pillows on the edge of the bed, you sit on them and lay back so your pelvis is tilted way up. Hubby stands besides the bed and admires the view as he penetrates your now upside-down opening. As he pushes in, he rubs behind the clit and can fondle the outside as well.