My daughter... :(?!
Question: my boyfriend that lives with me has redently told me that he caught my daughter and her boyfriend gettin busy. ; } ive tlked to her about it and she swears up and down that she didnt do it. my daughter and i are very close and i dont think she would lie to me about somthing like that. she is 16 and she has been seein this guy for 2 years can you give me any advice??
my boyfriend was never really nice to my daughter....... ssooooo please help
Answers: my boyfriend that lives with me has redently told me that he caught my daughter and her boyfriend gettin busy. ; } ive tlked to her about it and she swears up and down that she didnt do it. my daughter and i are very close and i dont think she would lie to me about somthing like that. she is 16 and she has been seein this guy for 2 years can you give me any advice??
my boyfriend was never really nice to my daughter....... ssooooo please help
This is a tough question. You don't want to know the answer. If they have been seeing each other for two years they have gotten to the point that they are sexually active. But no one here on the web knows them. At least she is not with someone she doesn't know. This is her boyfriend of two years and it sounds natural that they would have evolved to this level. She is very young to be sexually active. I think many sixteen year olds are sexually active these days, and I, like you, think it's too young, but we just have to learn to deal with what we can't control. Make sure she is on birth control. If she isn't, and I know how much you hate this, take her to the doctor and get her on the pill. Talk to her about safe sex practices and just be the best mother you can be to her. Try to dry your tears. Even though you are hurting, you will adjust. We have to let our babies (the way we think of them) grow up. God Bless you as your heart is aching. If this proves not to be true, then I will be cheering right along with you, but it seems it would be true and your daughter knows how you feel about it and didn't want you angry at her. But all will be fine. Trust in God. Bless You.
he could have seen them kissing and mistook it for "getting busy."
If your boyfriend isn't real nice to your daughter he could just be making ti up to get her in trouble.
She's 16 and has been with this guy for 2 years? I would suspect she is getting sexual with him. Communication with your daughter is essential. You can't stop her from having sex but you can discuss the factors that go along with sex such as STD's and pregnancy. A frank discussion about birth control is very important. Do this with her by yourself and leave your boyfriend out of it.
you obviously know your daughter and you know that she wouldn't lie to you, you also know by the sound of it that your bf is never really nice to her so could it be that your bf is just trying to create a rift between you and your daughter.
um ,youre kind of a bad mother for being with someone who isn't nice to your kid. thats very selfish. if i had a mean inconsiderate mother i would be acting out on her couch too.
First thing check it with your boyfriend may be he is wrong
second thing check your daughters daily activities
and the third
Your boyfriend may mistook something else
Thats kinda scary that your boyfriend isnt very nice to your daughter, thats a red flag in my books. In this case, I would give her the benefit of the doubt. If she is telling the truth, you will push her away by accusing her still. But to be honest, she may not tell you when she becomes sexually active, no matter how close you are. I know I sure as heck didnt tell my mom, and we were close.
If your boyfriend itsn't nice to her, why are you still seeing them? Your daughter should come first in your life, and if she feels uncomfortable with him, you shouldnt see him or he shouldnt live in the house with you, and a 16 year old girl.
If you have a reason not to trust your daughter, maybe i might question it. But, IF YOUR daughter has done nothing to break your trust, i would be questioning ur boyfriend.
Sounds to me like you and your daughter can talk about these things, and you have an open honest relationship i think she would tell you this.
It could be one of three things:
your boyfriend doesnt like your daughter and wanted her to get into trouble.
your daughter really was "trying" to do something.
or it could of been an inocent kiss and your boyfriend could of taken it wrong.
thanks for reading.
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hope i helped.