Why is he acting like this?!
Question: well when I am on my period every month when my boy friends friends are not around he is really sweet and will help me out with what I need. But when His friends come over (we live together) He dose not help me out at all and he makes fun of me with his friends on how moody and weird I am. Also when I ask him to stay with me at that times some times he dose but most of the time he says I can not I am meeting the guys at so and so. Im I asking to much of him at this time or at eney time. Or dose he just not care Why dose he act like that around his friends.
Answers: well when I am on my period every month when my boy friends friends are not around he is really sweet and will help me out with what I need. But when His friends come over (we live together) He dose not help me out at all and he makes fun of me with his friends on how moody and weird I am. Also when I ask him to stay with me at that times some times he dose but most of the time he says I can not I am meeting the guys at so and so. Im I asking to much of him at this time or at eney time. Or dose he just not care Why dose he act like that around his friends.
sounds like this is your first relationship that you have actuly lived with the guy... If I am right this is one thing that you will learn over time...
It is safe to say that 99.99% of men don't understand what it is like for women around this time of the month and how it really feels to have our hormones going hay-wire, the pain and other stuff that goes with it that we can not controle (but men think we can... News flash to men "we can't").
So having said that you man is still learning to adjust just the same as you are...
Before you moved in together you prob spent as much time together as you both could and this would of been great for both of you... But the thing is when you have had enough of each other you could both go your own ways and go to your own homes... But now you are living together
For us we get use to not going out or doing things around this time (for all of the reasons of periods etc). But we do still like the company, but for men it dosent effect them so they just see us as being moody and needy when it comes to us asking if they could stay with us and also most men for some reason dont like being around us when it is that time of the month.
So this is what you will learn, 1: to love and respect that when it isnt that time of the month that he dose want to do things with you, shows that he cares by doing things for you and helps you out, 2: that for alot of men periods freak men out because it is something that they dont understand and it is something that they do not want to understand and 3: DVD's and the computer can be your greatest friend for when you are on your periods...
I would say to just let him be with his friends or if anything and you really do want to be around him when you have your periods take some pain killers and PMS supp's and ask if he wouldnt mind if you could go along with him too... (because I am sure what he is going to be doing would be a hell alot better then staying at home by your self)
So DVD and injoy the peace and quite or ask some of your friends to come over for a chat or go out with him with his mates
It's because you have horrible grammer.
He and his friends probably think because of the media that women are crazy when they're on their periods. His friends don't know that you don't change much when you're on your period, but I bet your boyfriend doesn't have the self esteem to stand up to them and defend you when they make fun of you, so he instead joins into their jeering. Also, his friends probably invite him to go with them when they know you're on your period to give him an "escape" from hormonal "madness".
Maybe you are more moody at that time of the month. Most women are. Maybe your moodiness is part of why you get so upset over these things. Just an idea.
Always a good idea to have an honest, frank and private communication that how you feel, life will be so great if we become a little more sensible, kind, honest, simple and straight forward
your boyfriend needs to stop putting up a front and acting like a jerk when his friends are over. that is not cool. he obviously does care about you but caring shouldn't only happen behind closed doors. let him know that it's not cool when he and his friends tease you. they're way overstepping their boundries especially if they are your guests. unfortunately, guys will never understand what it's like having a dreaded period every month, but you can let him know that you are going through it and to just back off with the jokes.
Well First off I would approach him in a calm manner, Some guys just have a problem with being to "cool" one when they are around their buddies, Maybe he doesnt want to seem like hes Whipped!! haha Just let him know that you dont appreciate it. And that it really hurts you feelings that he makes fun of you only when his friends are around. If that doesnt take, then fight fire with fire ya know. Invite a bunch of you GFs over and pound his ego, At the end of the evening when he looks like he feels hurt express to him thats how you feel when he does that to you!! sometimes the best solution is putting the other person in you shoes. I hope it gets better if not hes not good enough for you!!