I want to lose my virginity but I'm afraid to. What can I do?!
Question: I want to lose my virginity to this guy I really like but I dont know if I can do it becaouse I'm afraid, Please Help. I really like him but i dont know what to do.
Answers: I want to lose my virginity to this guy I really like but I dont know if I can do it becaouse I'm afraid, Please Help. I really like him but i dont know what to do.
Don't rush into this decision. If you affraid, listen to that feeling. Make sure that this guy is "the guy" and not just "some guy," if he's the one, he will wait and it will be better. You can't escape the fear and anxiety.
You truly need a good partner to share this experience because speaking from experience, everything else - the music, the candles, the flowers (if you are lucky) don't mean anything in that moment unless you are truly ready to give yourself to someone like that....
Wait until YOU'RE ready.
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How old are you? If you're afraid, then don't do it.
wait until u feel ready
If you are unsure, then don't do it!!!!!
It is ok that you like him, but if you are afraid, then don't have sex with him because it mean's you are not really ready, but if you do decide to have sex, please make sure to use a condom, no matter what. (How old are you, if you don't mind me asking).
dont plan things like that, just let them happen (or not happen)
If you're really afraid, then be honest with yourself...you're not ready.
Hit that "additional info" button and tell us a few things:
1) How old are you?
2) How old is he? Is he also a virgin?
3) What are you afraid of? Pregnancy? Diseases? Pain? Embarrassment? Punishment?
4) Does he know about your fears, and is he pressuring you in any way?
if your second guessing it i wouldnt do it.
Don't rush into anything if you are ready for it. If the guy is pressuring you, you shouldn't lose your virginity to him. If he truly cares about you, he will wait. I'm sure you are more than worth it, so don't waste a perfect moment on some jerk. My advice is, have sex when you aren't afraid of the idea. If you want it to be perfect, wait until you are in the perfect mindset. Hope this helped
First of all, How old are you? If you are afraid you are probably not ready. In reality most of the time a girl is not ready even when she thinks she is. Your best bet is to wait utill you have been with someone long enough so that you are comfortable enough with him that you are not afraid.
Wait. If you are not ready, then dont do it. Until you feel you can do it your body will cooperate.
I had the same problem, you can be afraid and still be ready. I have found with me and my friends that a couple of months of straight foreplay helped loosen up the area so it didnt' hurt. If you don't htink your ready then don't do it, but if you do and your just scared of it hurting all you can really do is try and take it slow but you can't guarentee that it wont
It's clear you're not ready. Just wait.
Okay I know you really want to...but think....do u really want to because say if you get pregrant or develope an STD.. wait till marraige and if he says" If you love me you will do this" Don't continue going out with him because he will leave you after 3 weeks
The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain. If you are that afraid of the pain, you aren't ready to have sex.
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as the vagina has been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay