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Question: Okay so i know the whole thing about puberty but i like to read it over and over agin just becuase i ahevnt started my period.I know everyone starts at different times and starts growing breats at differnt times but i want big breast now and i want my period now i am 11 and everyone else has it why cant i get it. I am 5.o feet and i weigh about 80-85 pounds i thinks thast really skinny but can you expalin parts of woman hood and the sex part of it!???
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Answers: Okay so i know the whole thing about puberty but i like to read it over and over agin just becuase i ahevnt started my period.I know everyone starts at different times and starts growing breats at differnt times but i want big breast now and i want my period now i am 11 and everyone else has it why cant i get it. I am 5.o feet and i weigh about 80-85 pounds i thinks thast really skinny but can you expalin parts of woman hood and the sex part of it!???
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dont worry about it! you are fine... i think my first period came when i was 12 going on 13... i stopped worrying about it and it just came one day. i would say that when you gain some weight then it will come, i am not sure why though...
be happy that you have little to no brests, believe me, they get in the way of EVERYTHING... i have DD's and i hate them...
Woman hood is where your body is redy and able to carry another life, a baby. Puberity is the process that gets the woman body ready to carry a baby. Durring puberity, the brests grow so they can carry mily an dutrients for the baby. your body matures, your voice gets slightly deeper, not like guys where it goes al the way deep, but just deep enough to tell that you are still a woman, and not a girl any more. you start your menstraul cycle, a.k.a your period, what happens here is all month your uterus (the organ that holds the baby) grows a lining, that will eventually hold a baby. about half way through the month, your ovarys will release one egg, that if fertalized, will attach itself to the wall of your uterus. if it is not fertalized, it will be passed through and on the first day of the next month you shed the lining of your uterus, which is known as the period. you will eventually bleed for an average of 3 to 7 days, but starting off it will be less than that.
Along with the period, comes the unplesent things. Your boobs may hurt, you may get cramps, and you may get headaches and mood swings, and you will gain water weight a.k.a. bloat. these things are concidered to be PMS (Pre Menstral Syndrome), and are not fun.
As for sex, you should have this talk with your parents, but since you asked on here, i will tell you about it. The tradional talk would go "when a man and a woman love each other, they get married blasay blasay blahh..." i will say it like it is. When 2 people have feelings for each other they may say i love you, and i love you turnes into a hug, which turnes to a kiss which could possibly turn into sex. 2 people do not need to be married to have sex, and sex is not a sin. sex out side of marrage is looked down apon, and if sex was a sin it would not feel so good. but what happens in sex is the man puts his penis into the womans vagina and moves it around in her so he can ejaculate, which if he is not wearing a condom, could possibly fertalize that egg that i told you about earlier.
i hope i included everything, but i do suggust you talk to your parents about the sex aspect.
all girls are different, some are early bloomers , some arent. but sorry cant make urself grow any faster :( and honestly it sucks to have a period, cuz u get cramps n bleed every month n stuff
Your 11, I started when I saw 12, and big breasts aren't important, it's you, not your body that counts. And second of all you might have heard girls complaining about their periods, so trust me on this, be lucky while you don't have it.
Okay womanhood, you grow, and your body is preparing itself for when your older and ready to make a baby. And I would find this easier to discuss in an email so feel free to email me from my profile page. If you don't want to do that, then maybe you should talk to your mom about this. And you should have the "talk" soon, if you haven't already, and it explains everything.
well you will probly get your period around when your 12 or if your about 90-95 puond i got mine last yea r and it is un cofortable when you first get your period ..you smell ewhen you where white pant you see blood stains and in you under wear that the best anser i can give you
ok i am telling u this cause i know from studies well um yeah ur breast are going to grow thst part of it and u mean how to do sex well a boy has a penis and a girl has vagania a penus is inserted into it and theen asperm is fetilized a egg which is in the vagnia and then babies are created ok u will also get puplic hair and hair in armpits my get little lfws like pimples and u might have olily skin yeah i read in health class pretty disturbing hop i helped
i happened to be an early bloomer. i started puberty in 6th grade. DONT rush it. trust me its not fun. you cant possibly want to have cramps,bloating maybe even headaches and having to deal with bleeding every month. just be patient..your time will come .. =]
ok hunny ull prob get ur period when u gain more wait... period?? u r lucky u dont have it there alot of blood stained clothes and stuff like that
id ask ur mom more stuff rather than ppl on the internet
Well, I was exactly your age when I got my period and I was the first one in my class, wich means that is not thru that everybody else alredy have it!!!!!!! If they told you that, they are probably shy to tell the thru!!! I don't think that your weight have to do anything with it! Big brest my looks good to you, but it's better if they are not growing fast because then you got ugly strechmarks on them. Getting the first period doesn't mean that you suddenly geting more matured, it's just one step in your growing up. So don't be preoccupated with these, better concentrate on other feminine stuff that will make you looks more matured (than having period wich actually nobody in your area can notice) like upgrading your stile, taking care about your body( by taking vitamins and minerals wich helps you grow) exercising(strong abdominal muscles are very sexy) etc. By geting your period you won't be sexually matured at all, in fact I suggest you to take a mirror and get know better your body right now, try to find your clitoris and you will see it alredy 'works'. I don't know what exactly are you interested about sex part, but I know there are a lot of books that explains everything with many details, and you also can google anything that you want to find out. Good luck in your search :-)
So you're probably in 6th grade. When I was in 6th grade I was less than 5 feet and weighed less than 70 pounds. I didn't start wearing a bra until maybe 7th grade and I started mostly because the one other person in the locker room who also didn't wear a bra, started wearing one. I never did get big breasts. I don't know exactly when I started developing them, but I got my period by Christmas of 8th grade (I was 13). Not everyone around you has their period. 11 is below average and average just means that about half of all people get their period by then. I would not be jealous because not having your period means not having to deal with some of the annoying things other people have to deal with (cramps, tampons, pads). Also, big boobs aren't anything to be jealous of. It's much more comfortable to have small ones and most guys don't care anyway. Big ones just bounce around and hurt. Why would you want them? I'm happy with my small ones. Don't worry so much about bleeding out your vagina and having a bouncy chest. Just enjoy not dealing with that crap for now.
It's an exciting transition as you are reaching the next stage of life, but it is not something to worry about too much. As long as you hit puberty before you are in your 20's you are probably OK. :)
Trust me, you DO NOT want big boobs. They are heavy, they hurt your back, they get in the way of everything you can do easily right now. I don't even have large breasts and they make it difficult to play pool or aim a gun. It's hard to run unless you have a really supportive sports bra.
Sure, the boys will give you lots of attention - oh wait, they just want your big breasts. All the immature boys your age who have no respect for you will always be trying to grab them, touch them, and stare at them instead of your pretty eyes and radiant smile.
Enjoy the bliss of not having a period right now. It is a PITA. You have to deal with cramps (feels like gas), bloating (feels like your tummy is going to pop), your breasts hurt, when you are having PMS everything just pisses you off or makes you cry. You will have days when feel you just CANNOT stop eating and nothing seems to fill you up. THEN you have to deal with making sure you keep up with your menstrual flow so that it doesn't mess up your clothes.
Later on, after you have reached womanhood, and are mature enough to be sexually active you are worried about accidentally getting pregnant even if you are using the best birth control.
You sound like a normal weight. You will fill out as puberty takes hold and transforms you from a girl into a blossoming young woman. Then you will hear all about this or that diet and think you are fat - you're not.
Girls who get their periods later do better in self-esteem and school than girls who turn into large-breasted women over summer break. Google it if you don't believe me.
You may have already started with the hormonal changes. Do you have pubic hair? Do you get acne? Hair under the arms? Need deodorant? I had that for years before I ever had my first period.
Puberty and in particular menstruation is a mathematical equation. periods come near the end of puberty and girls generally must reach the 95th percentile of their adult height , that is they must be nearly fully grown height wise. The best indicator of the age ur periods will start is to ask ur mum when she started. By the way please do not be in any great hurry to grow up ,it is not all it is cracked up to be!