Will my husband think I'm sexy after having a baby?!
Question: I had a baby in September and I was at 178. She was 7lbs. Since then I've made it down to 142. I went from a size 13 to a size 5/6. My husband hasn't seen me since I gave birth, he's in Iraq. I know losing any weight is good, but I'm not sure if he'll find me sexy again. I'm still a little jiggly and I still have my stretch marks. I do tae-bo, pilates, and I run just about every day. Maybe every other. I'm trying to tone up and like I said I've dropped a lot of weight. (I weigh less than when we first met) but I'm not sure how he'll feel. I'm scared he won't think I'm sexy from the marks of the baby. I'm trying so that when he comes home, he'll be impressed, but I'm not sure. Any input?
I'm trying to do it for him, he's not asking me. I want it to be a nice surprise for when he comes home
i was 158 before I got pregnant.
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Answers: I had a baby in September and I was at 178. She was 7lbs. Since then I've made it down to 142. I went from a size 13 to a size 5/6. My husband hasn't seen me since I gave birth, he's in Iraq. I know losing any weight is good, but I'm not sure if he'll find me sexy again. I'm still a little jiggly and I still have my stretch marks. I do tae-bo, pilates, and I run just about every day. Maybe every other. I'm trying to tone up and like I said I've dropped a lot of weight. (I weigh less than when we first met) but I'm not sure how he'll feel. I'm scared he won't think I'm sexy from the marks of the baby. I'm trying so that when he comes home, he'll be impressed, but I'm not sure. Any input?
I'm trying to do it for him, he's not asking me. I want it to be a nice surprise for when he comes home
i was 158 before I got pregnant.
This one is before:
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This one is after:
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Any real man who really loves you, will continue to find you to be a turn on, no matter what size you are, nor care about a little jiggly or stretch marks.
WOW..............You look gorgeous! You've done a lot of work and made a brand new look! Good for you. While others are whining about weight loss, you've made the right choices and done the exercising and the hard work to get your body where you want it. Keep up the great work, he's going to be so surprised, a new daughter and a whole new you too!!!!
He's a lucky man just to have you.
Taking the time to worry about what he needs is a wonderful thing and you are apparently purfect for him.
Have a happy holiday.
You Are B-E-A-utiful.
you look absolutely fabulous before and after. if he loves you he wont even care about the marks. all he will care about is seeing you and his baby dont fret or stress urself.
you just has his child, he is going to find you sexier than ever !
First of all, I think you look great. And congratulations on all of the weight loss. Since your husband is in Iraq, he's got to be thinking about you ALL THE TIME! And I'm not a guy, but you being the mother of his child sounds like it could be a major turn-on. And your husband will appreciate you making the effort to look good for him!
As for the stretch marks I think they have creams to make those go away, but I don't think it will be a big deal. He knows why they're there.
Best of luck and congrats on the baby!
You looked great before...and you look FABULOUS now! You have nothing to worry about. Stretch marks are nothing...you have a healthy baby daughter to show for them ..I'd say that's a fair trade off! : )
BTW....tell your husband "thank you" for me when you see him again. He's my hero!