How can i reduce the pain of sex my first time?!
Question: How can i reduce the pain of sex my first time?
Answers:
Oh I hate being a guy and trying these questions, but the guy has so much to do with it being a good experience or not, I guess I qualify. It's going to sound so corny, but it's not something you do with just anyone to get the experience behind you. I recall the women I have shared this experience with calling the shots. I didn't want to go too fast. I kept checking in and asking if it was ok, should I pull back a bit, that kind of thing, and it is not easy for a man to do. The blood really does all drain in to the little head.
A tube of personal lubricant, like KY and a lubricated condom should make it significantly more comfortable. Expect a bit of blood, which will make it slicker yet and more comfortable. I hope you got the right guy, trust is real important too as is the guys experience. I still believe it is a big deal, that you don't give your first just to any guy. He may not be Mr. Forever, that's asking a lot these days. But it should be someone special to you. Good luck and I wish you multiple orgasms...
Happily married 20+ yrs
Advil. Fixes everything.