Asked before with no help whatsoever: Pain after sex for the first time?!
Question: Asked before with no help whatsoever: Pain after sex for the first time?
I'm 21 and my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 2 years. His birthday was last night so,for the first time ever for me,we had sex. I'll admit I was more nervous and scared than I should've been so I wasn't comfortable. We didn't use protection and he did get inside of me and for what he did get in and how long,it hurt like hell. The deeper he went the more it hurt. I know he "popped my cherry" so that's the answer for the bleeding but after almost 24 hours should I still be hurting? I'm not talking about just a little achy kind of pain, I'm talking about 'down there' all the way to my stomach in almost a period kind of crampy pain. It hurts to just lightly touch my stomach. It's not my period as I just had it last week. We did use lube,plenty so it's not that either I don't think.
Is this normal or could there be something wrong with me?
Is this normal or could there be something wrong with me?
Answers:
If he is long or your vagina is short (yes they come in different lengths just like a man), then his phallus could have hit your cervix multiple times and bruised it. If the pain doesn't get better soon, seek medical attention, because it could be something else.