Why cant i orgasim we tried but now it hurts! help?!
Question: Why cant i orgasim we tried but now it hurts! help!?
everytime i have sex it hurts like im being bruised we try and be gental and it doesnt make a difference
do you think it could be because i am not able to orgasim so we tried harder but still didnt work!!!
with not orgasiming ihave tried everything it doesnt work its frustratingWww@Answer-Health@Com
do you think it could be because i am not able to orgasim so we tried harder but still didnt work!!!
with not orgasiming ihave tried everything it doesnt work its frustratingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
There are many possible reasons for this!.
First off, sometimes the harder you actively try, the harder it is to orgasm!.
Secondly, for the pain!.!.!.
1!. Make sure you are wet!. This means your body is as ready as it can be for intercourse!. If you don't get wet, use lubrication (and talk to your doctor, because you should be getting wet)!.
2!. Check with your doctor!. There are many reasons sex can hurt!. There are conditions like endometriosis or interstitial cystits (in which case your doctor can suggest treatment options)!. There's simple friction problems with not enough lubrication (see #1)!. There are body physics like a tilted uterus or a short vagina (meaning penetration is hitting the uterus causing pain!.!.!.when females get sexually stimulated their vaginal canal elongates a bit!.!.!.a doctor should be able to do an exam an tell you if this could be a problem for you), both of which the doctor or and online community can suggest alternate positions to help alleviate this problem!. It could be scar tissue or something short-term like you are actually bruised (you said you've been trying "harder") and actually need a rest to heal!.
If none of this helps or gives you any conclusive help, try different activities during your love making that do get you to orgasm, and when there is intercourse, pick positions that limit how deep your partner can go!.
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off, sometimes the harder you actively try, the harder it is to orgasm!.
Secondly, for the pain!.!.!.
1!. Make sure you are wet!. This means your body is as ready as it can be for intercourse!. If you don't get wet, use lubrication (and talk to your doctor, because you should be getting wet)!.
2!. Check with your doctor!. There are many reasons sex can hurt!. There are conditions like endometriosis or interstitial cystits (in which case your doctor can suggest treatment options)!. There's simple friction problems with not enough lubrication (see #1)!. There are body physics like a tilted uterus or a short vagina (meaning penetration is hitting the uterus causing pain!.!.!.when females get sexually stimulated their vaginal canal elongates a bit!.!.!.a doctor should be able to do an exam an tell you if this could be a problem for you), both of which the doctor or and online community can suggest alternate positions to help alleviate this problem!. It could be scar tissue or something short-term like you are actually bruised (you said you've been trying "harder") and actually need a rest to heal!.
If none of this helps or gives you any conclusive help, try different activities during your love making that do get you to orgasm, and when there is intercourse, pick positions that limit how deep your partner can go!.
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I thought I had this problem also!. The key is to relax, enjoy yourself and don't stress out about it not happening!. The more you worry about it the less likely it will happen!. I guarantee you it will happen and when it does you will not be able to get enough of it!.
Something I did was touch myself!. Take time away from your partner and touch yourself - use a toy or your fingers, I found a toy showed me alot about what I liked!. Even porn helped me get in the mood!. Once you find what you like you will be able to bring that into the bedroom and use what you have learnt!.
As for it hurting just take it easy it will happen in time!. I hope I have helped!. Happy practicing :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Something I did was touch myself!. Take time away from your partner and touch yourself - use a toy or your fingers, I found a toy showed me alot about what I liked!. Even porn helped me get in the mood!. Once you find what you like you will be able to bring that into the bedroom and use what you have learnt!.
As for it hurting just take it easy it will happen in time!. I hope I have helped!. Happy practicing :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to orgasm without penetrative sex (which usually does little to nothing for most women anyway)!. Relax and touch yourself or let your man do it for you!. Try oral, and focus on giving the clit the right attention!. See what feels good to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
play with yourself, or have your partner play with you to see if you reach orgasm that way!.
There are 2 types of orgasm, I think one is called Clitoral (meaning stimulation of your clit to bring you to orgasm) or vaginal orgasm is the other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are 2 types of orgasm, I think one is called Clitoral (meaning stimulation of your clit to bring you to orgasm) or vaginal orgasm is the other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Redelle gave a good answer, but I'm going one step further!. Get a complete physical exam and then discuss your concerns with your doctor!. Sometimes using KY jelly makes it easier for penetration!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you try foreplay to begin with!? or are you just going for the penetration!?
Have you had an orgasm by yourself!?
Some women can only orgasm by their clit whilst others only by their g spot and some both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you had an orgasm by yourself!?
Some women can only orgasm by their clit whilst others only by their g spot and some both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey MILF, here is a far better place to get good information than Yahoo!.
http://health!.discovery!.com/centers/sex/!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://health!.discovery!.com/centers/sex/!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com