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Question: I was watching tv tonight, and saw a scene that made me flash back to when I was 12. In middle school, 2 boys had cornered me and had tried to rape me, in the school on the abandoned stairwell to the 3rd floor. I got away before they could rape me, and had COMPLETELY forgotten about it until that scene on tv in the stares with the steel cages around. I am so freaked out right now....please help?
Answers: I was watching tv tonight, and saw a scene that made me flash back to when I was 12. In middle school, 2 boys had cornered me and had tried to rape me, in the school on the abandoned stairwell to the 3rd floor. I got away before they could rape me, and had COMPLETELY forgotten about it until that scene on tv in the stares with the steel cages around. I am so freaked out right now....please help?
A good way to not let those memories haunt you and affect your life now, is to realize that you made it through that event. You survived and are stronger than you know. Think about how that was a long time ago, and you've come so far to let that memory (or those boys) mess up what you've become today! Think of yourself as a winner, because you overcame it. And remember how important 'today' is...don't let the past come back to haunt you. Take care... :)
I've been there, so I know how it is! Once you 'take control' of those thoughts, it's easy to let go of them if they come back. Good luck and congrats on getting married! Report It
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