My daddy is dying from cancer...?!
Question: My daddy only has about 2 months to live he is dieing from cancer. It used to be something so small and now i find out he's dieing. And i dont know what to do it is so devastating im only 13 and i need some advise to help me get through it...
Answers: My daddy only has about 2 months to live he is dieing from cancer. It used to be something so small and now i find out he's dieing. And i dont know what to do it is so devastating im only 13 and i need some advise to help me get through it...
It is so hard what you are going through. My husband died last week of brain cancer. We have 6 children aged 8-15. My kids are homeschooled so they got to spend a lot of time with their Dad. As others are saying the most important thing you can do is spend time with your Dad and keep telling him that you love him.
You can get through it but you may need some good friends to help you , ask your Mum or a trusted friend to help you.
Runboard.com has a forum for children of brain tumour patients maybe you could join that even if your Dad had another type of cancer.
God Bless you .
omg im so sorry! its ok..i went through the same thing with my grandma...
just spend as much time as u can with him...try not to think about it too much! if u need anything u can email me!
i wish the best for u and ur family! =/
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BE STRONG BABES AND GROW UP LIKE HE,D EXPECT YOU TOO, AND CARRY ON THINKING OF HIM FOREVER
GOD BLESS
Don't know what to say Anna.
You're not alone.
Go speak to your minister or priest.
Just feel for you!
Aw... try not to think of it. Spend as much time with him as you can, and never stop saying 'i love you' before its too late. Express your feelings with him and be open to him. Make him feel loved, every day he has. Tell him how much u love him, and that you will grow up to b the best way he would imagine you. Tell him he is a great dad. God Bless you...
Let good doctors take care of him so the treatment and care should be the best. What you can do is to be with him, love and respect him, be kind and affectionate to him so you do not miss the moments you can be with your daddy and try to make a resolution to have good habits, study hard so your daddy feels that you can take care of yourself and if you are determined nothing can stop you
Wow this is a hard one. I went through this same thing 16 years ago. I was 20 and it was heartbreaking. I am so sorry that you are going through this so young. Looking back on it now I can say that I find comfort in the fact that I spent a lot of time with my Dad the last few months. Just let him know you love him. Nothing is going to ease your pain right now. I hope you have a good friend that you can talk to, a shoulder to cry on. I will be praying for you.
oh!! anna, im so sorry. it's terribly hard for one so young to completely understand. but just have faith, that when it's time for your dad to pass on, he wont be here physically, but he will ALWAYS be with you in spirit, he will only be a breath away.
Doctors say what they say, their knowledge is limited to what they are taught, they are still in practice and don't have the final say so. Have faith in God, make sure your dad's saved, and know one way or another your dad will be healed. You can pray that he is healed here and will have many more years with you here, but know that if he is taken away- he has been healed and will never have to deal with any problems again. As difficult as it may be, be happy for him because if he passes, he will be in a much better place and you WILL meet again.
I am so sorry for you loss. Nobody should have to live life without a dad or a mom. I lost my baby sisiter and my favorite grampa. Try to think about all the good times you had with him. God Bless You
Anna,
I wish I could sit with you and talk. And give you a big hug. First of all. Just be ther eand love him and do all you can for him. Doctors may say this is happening fast, but only God knows. Know that he must be suffering and that all you can do to ease his pain and love him and be there is the most important. I am so sorry at such a young age you have to face this illness. God Bless you and your family. I Hope your dad does not suffer alot
This is hard to deal with. You need to be free to talk and cry when you want to. If your mom is having a hard time being support (because she probably is hurting really bad), are there other family you can talk to? There are support groups which can help when you need to talk also. Check with your local hospice.
Anna, I am so very sorry to hear this news! I lost my Daddy, when I was 16. It is not an easy thing to do.
Sweetheart, know this....it does hurt to lose our loved ones. However, God can help you through this time! Many will say condolences but, it will be the Hand of God which will comfort you more than any words spoken! Lean on the Lord God and He will surely help you more than we can!!
Anna, I will be praying for you, your dad and all the family. Know that you can e-mail me anytime and if you need too...i am here for you! I will keep praying for all of you and asking God to comfort hearts around you as well!
gail
My Dad died of cancer also. Spend as much time with him as you possibly can. Be sure to tell him how much you love him. Have no regrets. I was older than you when my Dad died of cancer, and we had never said the words "I love you" until he became sick. We both cried like babies the first time we said it to each other. If your parents are still together, do all you can to help your Mother around the house during this time. It will be extremely hard for her also.Life doesn't always seem fair, and cancer is an ugly disease. I hope they can find a cure. I never had gone to church, but when my Father became ill, I went to a church and asked the people to put my Dad on their prayer list. I will put you on my prayer list also.Remember, your Dad loves you. Try to always do your best and make him proud.He would want that.Take care!
I am so sorry. My daddy is dying from cancer too and he is in his final days. First, just take things one day at a time. NONE of us know when our final day on earth is going to be. Also, NEVER give up hope. Finally, pray...pray for a miracle, pray for a cure, pray for God to help you through this, pray that your daddy does not suffer...whatever it is you need, pray for it. I'll say a prayer for you too.