Ejaculation and Confidence?!

Ejaculation and Confidence?

Ok well, when i ejaculate, my sperm doesn't shoot out, its more like it trickles. One of my fantasies is to come over a girls face or body, and i'd like to see it shoot out not trickle, i eas wondering if there was anything i could do to help this?

Also just to add to this, is 5.5inches a good size for some one who is 17?

There are ways to increase the force of an ejaculation so it's shoots more than just trickling.

One way is to simply not masturbate/have sex for a while. The longer you go, the more forceful it tends to be when you actually do. This, of course, can require some serious willpower and won't really guarantee anything, as it's just a tendency.

Another thing you could do is that during masturbation/sex, try to go as long as you can without ejaculating. The longer you're aroused and the longer you take before you ejaculate, the more forceful it usually is when you do.

But the surest way to make an ejaculation more forceful is to Kegel exercises. These exercises basically strengthens the muscle that controls urine flow and ejaculation. There are 2 ways to find it. One way is when you're urinating, try to temporarily stop the flow of urine. Another way is when you have an erection, try to "flex" your penis by forcing more blood into it. Both of these ways use the same muscle, and once located, you can tense that muscle whenever you want (without needing to be urinating or have an erection).

Now the easy part. Once you've found the muscle, tense it for a few seconds, then let it relax for a few seconds, then repeat the process for a few minutes a day. It's a muscle, so it can get sore if you overwork it. It takes a few weeks for results to show, but in time, by strengthening this muscle, you'll not only have a more forceful ejaculation, but you might be able to control orgasms better. See the link for more info.

And lastly, 5.5 inches is a perfectly fine and normal size. It's well within the range for an "average" size, so don't get worked up over that. It's what you do with it that's more important. :)