Alright guys this one is kinda for u but grls can still answer?!
Question:
Alright guys this one is kinda for u but grls can still answer?
ok well i am in 9th grade i have never had a boyfriend...is that wrong? and i like this guy and he asked me to dance at this banquet and i don't know if he means anything by it i mean we are always hanging out and people constantly ask us if we r goin out, i don't wanna tell him that i still liek him i already told him once but what should i do??? tel him how i feel? oh and he asked me too dance 2x at this dance thing because then after the second one the dance was over, well i am bein serious so plz help
Additional Details4 weeks ago
he just said ok, and i just can't stop liking him i have liked him for almost a yr
Answers:
First, it's not wrong for you to have never had a boyfriend yet. Wait until you're ready. You can date/see/hang out with guys you like without having to tie the whole "boyfriend/girlfriend" thing to it. At your age, that's part of the problem; most girls are absolutely ready for that while most boys aren't. They want to hang out with girls without the "obligation of a girlfriend."
As to the rest of this, one easy mistake you've made is that you've put yourself in his position and wondered what he really meant and what he was trying to say through his actions. Males do not think and act that way. Men, as a whole, say what we mean and mean what we say. He wasn't trying to tell you anything other than he wanted to dance. And the fact that he asked you twice seems to show that he does like you. But boys at that age can also be kind of confused.
They're at the age where they now know they like girls and have mustered the courage to act on it (some of the time). But they usually don't know what to say to girls or how to act. Trust me, most of the boys you will meet are just as confused and stumped about girls as you and most other girls are about boys.
If he seems to like you but doesn't seem to do a whole lot about it and if you do like him, you might have to be the one to begin it. I just wouldn't advise putting him in a corner and "forcing" him into a "do you like me or not" situation. They don't respond well to that. Make it clear to him (as in VERBALLY) that you like him, then the ball is in his corner.