What happens to my erection!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!

What happens to my erection!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

My girlfriend who is incredibly gorgeous has the ability to get me erect even through a sexy text message or phone call. There doesnt even need to be any physical contact and my erection comes on in a snap. When we kiss i'm hard as a rock, when i'm fondling her and massaging her i'm rock solid. When she starts to give me oral, i'm hard then...BAM!!! as she is sucking me off my penis slowly starts to go limp and i have to stop her so she doenst think she is doing a bad job and the same goes for sex. We have only been together for a month and a half but the 3 times we have tried to have sex i go limp. I keep hearing its all in my head and its psychological but seriously....3 TIMES!!!!. She thinks its her and it totally isnt..i cant seem to keep my rock solid erection when i try to penetrate her vaginaly. She thinks i'm the perfect size and often enough, compliments me on my size. I have to show her that its not her fault. I just want to make love to my girlfriend..WHAT DO I DO??????

simple - stop trying so hard to stay hard. You are merely suffering a case of performance anxiety which will dimish with experience once you allow yourself the freedom to get the experience.

try this - next time you and your gf get together let her strip you, tie you down and do as she pleases with you. Just lie back and enjoy whatever she does. Keep your mind clear of thoughts of anything except how wonderful it is to have her all over you doing things. And, if she chooses to have intercourse with you it will be her putting the condom on you and her vagina will envelop your penis instead of your penis entering her vagina. In other words she controls what happens and when and how - nothing like being totally dominated to turn a guy from a limp noodle into a total pleasure source for a girl (and ultimately for him too once she has destroyed his performance anxiety).