I can't get an orgasm with him!


Question: I can't get an orgasm with him
My guy always comes just too fast!. I can never get an orgasm with him!. Even when he have oral sex, or if he's fingering me I can't get one!. Our sex doesn't last that long, so it's never good because he'll ejaculate right before I can orgasm!. How can I help him so that it's good for both of us!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Its great of you to want to help him, but he really has to help himself here!.

A great technique to help is stopping before he cums!.
He should be able to tell when he gets close to that "point of no return" of excitement!. What he has to do is just stop intercourse once he gets near there!. Wait a minute or so to calm down, and then go back at it!.

He just needs to learn where that point is for him and learn to breath and try to control getting there too fast!.

It will take time and practice, but he can do it!.

Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

have him do an exercise called "kegels", this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm!. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well!. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus!. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle!. The next time he urinates, have him try stopping mid-stream without his hands, and that is the PC muscle!. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it he'll have the ability to last as long as he wantsWww@Answer-Health@Com

He needs to learn the start and stop technique:stop before he climaxes ,wait a bit and continue again,wait again and continue again!.
He can train that with masturbating!.
And Google:Kegel exercises:make his pelvic muscles stronger:The two combined will do the trick:makes you both happy
Space!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to TELL HIM! If he cares then he will wait for you, or pleasure you til it happens! That sucks if he starts and then stops right before it happens but make sure you tell him to keep going! Tell him your not being pleased and hopefully that will be a shot to his ego and he will try harder!Www@Answer-Health@Com

How long have you guys been together!? From expierience I know it gets better and better over time!. Also, I've noticed girls like to rub themselves in the process of me doind the deed!. Try that!.
Your man, doesn't sound like a man at all!.
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Situations that could be preveniting you from reaching orgasm:

your religious/moral convictions!.

you're stressed

you're experiencing Performance Anxiety

You were not ready for sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Mabe a **** ring!. Google it and you will see all kinds!. Sometimes it keeps a excited amateur in control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take it to Love & Romance!.

This forum has turned to nothing but dick size and I can't come

This is MEN"S HEALTH ISSUES
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Yup tell him!.!.!.u both should communicate during!.!.!.that why he knows and you know that he knows what you want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you should buy a vibrater!.guarantee it will solve your problem!
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why don't you just help yourself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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