Help pleaseeeeee!:'(?!
Question: Last night i asked my boyfriend a serious question.
"Where do u see us? together forever? a long time, or just a few more months?"
Just jokeingly.
he said
"um a long time. Idk about forever."
His responce kinda disipointed me. We r in our 20's.
I just turned 21 on march 8th. He is 22 turning 23 in oct.
I want to get married when i'm older. Maybe in 4-5 years.
I've been with him for almost 2 years now. I feel like i should do something? but i don't know what to do?
Answers: Last night i asked my boyfriend a serious question.
"Where do u see us? together forever? a long time, or just a few more months?"
Just jokeingly.
he said
"um a long time. Idk about forever."
His responce kinda disipointed me. We r in our 20's.
I just turned 21 on march 8th. He is 22 turning 23 in oct.
I want to get married when i'm older. Maybe in 4-5 years.
I've been with him for almost 2 years now. I feel like i should do something? but i don't know what to do?
Of course his answer disappointed you, You expected him to give you a whole page description on what??? It clearly shows that you are both on a different page regards to where you both see yourselfs in life, But you need to realise that guys only live for "The Moment" Too much planning just makes them scared and sufficated inside,Do you know what his plans are in 4-5 years?Maybe totally different from yours. Just sit back and talk about what/where you both see yourselfs in the future and come to a compromise it will probably allow you's to find out abit more about each other.
well, if you think you want to get married to him then you should talk to him about his response and how you were not satisfied with it, maybe he didn't realize how serious you were about it. try talking to him again and see what happens, if it doesn't work post it again and i will help you.
accept his answer for what it is. he is young and is not ready for commitment of a lifetime. six years of dating before marraige might make more sense to you than him.
you can only hope that he will take your question seriously at some point. after two years you should be able to tell if he was trying to duck out on you, or if he just hasnt thought about it as much as you have.