First time for both of us.?!
Question: OKay well im 15 years old shes 14 and me and my girlfriend have been getting sexually active and im pretty sure were gonna have sex soon. From what ive heard the first time hurts really bad for girls and they bleed?(can someone clear this up) or something. Im not HUGE down there but i am normal size but shes a pretty small girl and i just dont want the entire time we have sex to hurt her.
Answers: OKay well im 15 years old shes 14 and me and my girlfriend have been getting sexually active and im pretty sure were gonna have sex soon. From what ive heard the first time hurts really bad for girls and they bleed?(can someone clear this up) or something. Im not HUGE down there but i am normal size but shes a pretty small girl and i just dont want the entire time we have sex to hurt her.
There is a possibility she'll bleed and have pain. Girls have a small layer of skin across the vaginal opening that is often broken when they lose their virginity. When you do have sex make sure she's ready, lots of foreplay. This way her body will produce enough lubricant to ease the insertion. And go slowly. It may be better if she's on top so she can control the speed and depth. If she does happen to bleed don't be grossed out. She'll probably be upset and embarassed, let her know it's okay. And don't get discouraged if it's too much pain for her. It may take a few times of trying until her vagina has stretched a bit and become accustomed to sex. Go slow, wear a condom, and have fun!
you shouldn't be doing that at all, you are waaaayyyyy too young.
im just thirteen. im prty sure its illegal. but idk, i know chicks bleed 1st time. but idk. u should post this in womans or sumthing
go ahead, just pick the baby names and make sure you have insurance for maternity and prenatal care.
Why don't you wait? You will screw up your life (and her's) in 9 months if you do.
omg u are SOOOO SWEET... thats pretty young and u aint maried but hers the deal...thats life.. it will hurt and u cant really do anything about it.. she might bleed depending on if she has a cherry(it may have poped w/o any ne noing as a child riding a bike horseback blahblah blah... or she wasnt born w/ one) i'm still a virgin but i knowz wut im tlkn bout boo. Good luck and use sum fuxin protextion!!!
yes.. its true unfortunately.. they do bleed and it does hurt.. it bleeds because its their first time.. what happens is that you pop her cherry..
but don't worry.. it may be a little painful for her but if you do a good job, he will have more pleasure than pain..
by the way.. you are a bit young for it but telling you to not do it wont help by any means.. i mean, i had my first time when i was twelve and i totally regret it but.. anyways..
thrust into her gently and slow.. if you are fast and hard she will suffer..
hope this helps
Wow, not even old enough to drive to the drugstore to buy condoms.
While you're doing research, you may want to look up the following terms:
age of consent
statutory rape
kid grow up first live life buy yourself a harley davidson
yous are way too young to be having sex.
plus 7 months isn't that long, especially at that age.
i have friends who have been going out with their boyfriends for almost 2 years and are now going on 16 and haven't had sex yet. why do you feel the need for yous to have sex so soon? anyways in answer to your question, yes girls do bleed, just go slow and don't worry about hurting her or you'll just get anxious and make things worse.
Yes, it can be uncomfortable for her if she has an intact hymen. Try putting a finger or two inside, during foreplay, to help her work up to something as big as a penis. Put her on top, so she can control how much she gets and how fast. Stop when she says to stop.
Use condoms. Practice by yourself to avoid clumsy moments with your partner. Make putting it on into part of your play.
PS: Bravo for being concerned about her feelings - too many guys aren't.