Please help! i dont know what to do!help?!
Question: ok so i have no privacy, my mom walks into my room for some reason really often, she has walked in on me wile i was... well... doing... "stuff." This has happened like 3 times, and my door has no lock. After the 3rd time she walked in i stopped... masturbating wile she was home. but it still really bothers me that she never even knocks and just walks in a lot!
what should i do?
should i talk to her?
pleas help me!
thanks.
Answers: ok so i have no privacy, my mom walks into my room for some reason really often, she has walked in on me wile i was... well... doing... "stuff." This has happened like 3 times, and my door has no lock. After the 3rd time she walked in i stopped... masturbating wile she was home. but it still really bothers me that she never even knocks and just walks in a lot!
what should i do?
should i talk to her?
pleas help me!
thanks.
I used to have zero privacy too! When I was around 13, my parents still thought of me as a kid rather than a teenager. It really annoyed me. If I had my door locked, my mom would get really angry. She would instantly assume I was watching pornography on television or on the computer. It was extremely annoying. Since my room was next to the living room, any visitors that wanted to see me could easily just open the door and walk right in. My cousin walked in on me once when I was changing my underwear! One day I got so fed up (because my mom almost caught me masturbating) that I went to tell my mom how I felt. She realized that I wasn't a little kid anymore, and she agreed to let me lock the door. I was expecting her to get all angry and think I'm a bad kid, but she understood me really well. She said as long as I don't have my room locked 24/7, I can have it locked every now and then. Everyone in my family also agreed to knock and wait for me to say "come in" before coming in. I don't live in that house anymore, and although my room is far away from the living room in this house, everyone still knocks and waits for me to say "come in". I still lock my door whenever I want to, but not that much so my mom doesn't think I'm up to something. So yeah, go talk to her, she'll understand. Good luck, let me know how it goes!! Message me sometime. =)
just talk to her
just ask her to knock and ask her every month cause she will forget.
p.s. you might want to come up with a good reason first because she might ask you why and then if you say just cause she'll get suspicous
I have the same problem, i just haven't been caught yet. You do it in the open. You should masturbate at night, or in the shower, or under the covers.
talk to her (im a girl) and i know she will understand. maybe the only reason shes walking in on you is cuz shes afraid your doing something bad.
Talk to her and try to explain your not a little kid anymore and you would like some privacy so please since you don't have a lock could she atleast knock before coming into your room. Be careful to watch your tone and approach it as a mature teen. You'll find with parents they are more willing to listen to you if you approach it maturely and without a whiny / snotty tone. Hope I helped :)
of course you should talk to her. tell her you're a big boy now and you just a little more privacy. ask her to knock before she enters.
and trust me, no mother wants to walk in on her son rubbing one out, so she'll be happy to start knocking first
i think women find it funny catching men/boys masturbating.u should talk 2 her.
It's unacceptable that your mum keeps walking in on you. She must realise you need some privacy.
You will have to talk to her. Explain that you are at the age when privacy is important. Ask her if you can have a lock on your door or at least ask her to knock when she comes into your room. I'm sure she wouldn't you bursting into her room with knocking.
If you have no luck, get your dad to talk with her.
Either that or will you will have to masturbate in the bathroom. She is being very unreasonable.
That sucks man. Really just talk to her. and if she still doesn't knock get your dad involved. Every kid deserves a little privacy. especially when you are trying to rub one out haha. so yeah just talk to her. She'll come around and if she doesnt the shower (like so many have suggested before me) is a good place to get off.
Good Luck!!
-Amelia
just tell her you get a fright and sometimes you need your own privacy. Then again, it can be a distinct move for healthy. I think parents get worried when they don't know what their kids are up to by themselves, and maybe they could develop strange habits. do it somewhere else like the bathroom.
shame on you.......