Problem with Premature ejaculation?!
Question: sumtimes i can have great sex but sumtimes i just cant do it... i get EXTREMELY nervous and it just doesnt happen... i find it really hard to concentrate.. i kno ppl.. u have to think of sumthing else... OR only focus on what ur doing.. tried them both but i just cant... whats wrong with me help? and i am 19 years old
Answers: sumtimes i can have great sex but sumtimes i just cant do it... i get EXTREMELY nervous and it just doesnt happen... i find it really hard to concentrate.. i kno ppl.. u have to think of sumthing else... OR only focus on what ur doing.. tried them both but i just cant... whats wrong with me help? and i am 19 years old
Dude...Totally normal...I've been married for 10 years now it happens to everyone male and female if they admit it or not, It's happened. Being comfortable with yourself and your partner is the key...Not every-time is going to be a mind blowing orgasm for you or your partner...sometimes even masturbating feels better than sex..you know why!? Because your not pressured to perform..or thinking is it good for her?...You'd be surprised how foreplay (kissing, touching,rubbing etc...) helps to increase sex drive and climax for you and your partner... Spontaneous sex can be fun and exciting but just take your time and make love...it doesn't always happen like the Porno's... and making Love will be much more satisfying in the end.
be relaxed or drug will help??
You either have to reduce the anxiety yourself or seek the advice of a doctor/therapist.
It will sort itself out. Try not to get anxious.
Ok. I was married to a guy just like you. He would *** in no time flat, sometimes before we even got started. We finally went a doctor. He suggested he masterbates more often, and aducate himself with some sexual movie.(porn) the more masterbating he did, the longer he would last.
and by watching a few movies (with me ) he learned what I liked and didn't. Not only did our sex life improve, but so did his pre ejaculation problem.