I started masturbating when I Was 9-10.. is this normal/bad?!
Question: ok well... I started masturbating when I was 9-10.. then I got caught when I was about 10-11 so for about a year and a half...then when I got caught I stopped but I started to do it again a few months ago.... so I stayed a year or less without masturbating (12 and turning 13 soon) and I didnt really get hard or anything (like need to..) but then it started and i had an urge to... when I was 9-10 I used to use saliva to masturbate because I had no sperm.. and now I use saliva again.. thing is, now everytime I do it I fell ashamed and I dont know why... I fell as if I shoudnt have. but the weird thing is... sometimes when I try without saliva, its like as if I was scratching and it hurts a little...I masturbate about 2-3 times a day sometimes ...sometimes my stomach fells weird after... is this bad? should I stop? or is this normal/just puberty... help
note: in case your wondering bout when I Was 9-10...all I knew was that it felt good so I did it didnt know what it was
Answers: ok well... I started masturbating when I was 9-10.. then I got caught when I was about 10-11 so for about a year and a half...then when I got caught I stopped but I started to do it again a few months ago.... so I stayed a year or less without masturbating (12 and turning 13 soon) and I didnt really get hard or anything (like need to..) but then it started and i had an urge to... when I was 9-10 I used to use saliva to masturbate because I had no sperm.. and now I use saliva again.. thing is, now everytime I do it I fell ashamed and I dont know why... I fell as if I shoudnt have. but the weird thing is... sometimes when I try without saliva, its like as if I was scratching and it hurts a little...I masturbate about 2-3 times a day sometimes ...sometimes my stomach fells weird after... is this bad? should I stop? or is this normal/just puberty... help
note: in case your wondering bout when I Was 9-10...all I knew was that it felt good so I did it didnt know what it was
It's because you got caught in the act. Now every time you do it, I'm sure subconsciously your thinking about that time. Just try to focus on something else or it could effect your sex life. Your normal, I don't see anything wrong with it. My son is 9 and we just had a little talk about this. His Psychologist said this is a normal age. Anywhere between 8-10 is early puberty.
haha no its not bad necessarily....u really shouldnt keep track of it and worry about it
I began masterbating when i was 9 too, and don't feel guilty its normal every guy does it, it feels good, its healthy for you, and it relieves stress.
as long as you weren't guided by a michael jackson instructional video don't worry about it. everyone has their own time.
2-3 times a day is a little much. And 9 or 10 might be a little young. But youre going through puberty and exploring your body, so its pretty normal.
dont worry.... u didnt do anything wrong... u just figured stiff out earlier then others....
also when u feel ashamed, its normal... it used to be like that with me too when i was ur age... now im 16 and when i have to masturbate'(what does not normally occur cause of my gf) i feel like nothing is wrong.... its just ur age...
by the way about getting caught... its normal... i got caught once by my bro... and once by my mom.... its emberracing but ull get over it.....
Masturbation is normal, everyone does it or did it at one point in their life. 2-3 times a day is too much. If possible, try to cut back to one a day or every other day. Don't worry. Masturbation also gets rid of dead sperm before your body gets rid of it naturally (wet dream) it also keeps fresh sperm in you.
of course this is bad......certainly not normal. I started when I was 3. I am a fking superstar.....i can jack off in Ny and have Jizzz hit the Pacific Ocean
you're completely normal and it's a normal thing to do. You shouldn't feel ashamed because all boys your age are feeling and doing the same thing. You may feel ashamed beacuse you got caught a couple years ago, but it's not a big deal and you shouldn't feel weird about it. It's a natural way to discover your body and it's healthy.
It's also ok to use saliva to prevent too much friction. Everything you described is completely normal!
Umm I don't understand the whole saliva thing but what ever.
2-3 times a day is a little much, and it could hurt because you could be doing it to hard. I don't know about the stomach issue. Also you shouldn't feel ashamed because almost all guys do it and your just going through puberty and exploring things. Hope this helped a little :D
If it feels good do it.
check out these sites:
http://healthystrokes.com/young.html
http://www.jackinworld.com/
http://www.student.com/sexguide_a.php?id...
masturbation is very normal. i personally don't think you should feel ashamed about it, most people do it and it's a great way to fill your sexual needs without any risks or precautions (besides getting caught doing it) those sites might help with some of the questions and worries you have.
It is a little early but not unheard of. But I think you have been brainwashed into thinking it is wrong and sinful. Many boys over the many years have suffered this abuse from parents. It is not sinful nor is it wrong or damaging. If it comes to dominate your life then it too much. Rest easy and know that the great mass of boys - and girls - do this on a regular basis. Don't let the condemnation mess up your adult life. Good Luck Don't let the Blue Noses Win.
age ain't nothin but a #
its fine.. now, most kids dont start that early, but its still fine, theres nothing to worry about
its normal and healthy, 9 a lil to young, but it your own choice.
According to a survey of over 10,000 males by the web site HealthyStrokes.com in the second half of 2007, 14.1 percent of males had started masturbating by their 11th birthdays. You were a little bit younger than average, but there is nothing wrong with you.
Don't be surprised if you start having sex a little earlier than other males too. The average male who starts masturbating before his 11th birthday has sex at age 17.5. The average male who starts masturbating at age 11 has sex at age 17.6. The average male who starts masturbating at 12 has sex at age 18.0. The average male who starts masturbating at age 13 has sex at age 18.4. And so it goes. Typically, every year a male goes without learning to masturbate adds .29 years to his age of first intercourse.