I'm so depressed... Can & will it get better & will times get better...:(?!
Question: Okay, i'm a 14-15 year old boy, 6' tall, & i have an amazing, girlfreind, that ive been with for a long time now, & i love her loads & loads, & me and her had such good times together, i have lots of freinds & well i had a pretty hard life.. my father comitted suicide.. which made me depressed for life now.. Well i have had such bad problems, lately..(BADLUCK) like, i went to the doctor about my penis, cause under the foreskin was a litle rash on the back of it not sore or itchy, just a few little lines of very small bumps,& he exaimend it, & he told me it was a yeast infection..soo he gave me cream, & than pills, stilll never went away, & i now think it could be Lichen Planus, or somthing else,..& that if my girlfreind knows than shell break up with me, & ive never had sex im responsable not a (man hore), & she loves me soo much, & i love her too,..Trust me you should see the way she is towards me..:( i hope its nothing serious, under my foreskin..sometimes i feel like killing myself.
Answers: Okay, i'm a 14-15 year old boy, 6' tall, & i have an amazing, girlfreind, that ive been with for a long time now, & i love her loads & loads, & me and her had such good times together, i have lots of freinds & well i had a pretty hard life.. my father comitted suicide.. which made me depressed for life now.. Well i have had such bad problems, lately..(BADLUCK) like, i went to the doctor about my penis, cause under the foreskin was a litle rash on the back of it not sore or itchy, just a few little lines of very small bumps,& he exaimend it, & he told me it was a yeast infection..soo he gave me cream, & than pills, stilll never went away, & i now think it could be Lichen Planus, or somthing else,..& that if my girlfreind knows than shell break up with me, & ive never had sex im responsable not a (man hore), & she loves me soo much, & i love her too,..Trust me you should see the way she is towards me..:( i hope its nothing serious, under my foreskin..sometimes i feel like killing myself.
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Oh my God you poor guy, your story literally brought tears to my eyes and I don't even cry.
Please don't break up with your girlfriend because she sound like a gift from heaven and she maybe..just maybe be your soul mate. I believe you said y'all never had sex which is good.
Just continue to go to the doctor's and seek help besides the doctor's. Do whatever it is that you can do and have to do to get better!!
You will be fine...because you have your father watching down on you and you don't even know it!! He did what he did and although I am sorry to say this but that was...and it was his choice. However, I am sure he doesn't want you to kill yourself!! Everybody has trails and tribulations regardless!! I hate my life too but sometimes you have no choice but to fight.
Keep on fighting and you'll make it through. I don't know you from Adam but I have confidence in you just because.....
sounds like you caught the yeast infection from her. Most women get thrush at some point in their life - some have the unitchy type for years. Cut out yeast and sugar in your diet and it will go away. Im an expert on this. Stop worrying. Negativity never got anyone anywhere. You got a beautiful girl there that wants to be with you for you. Your just going thru a little panicky spell. Think of the bigger picture always. There are kids starving out in Africa, people right in your neighbourhood who cant even walk. Your a strapping six foot lad with youth on your side and a fab girlie. You got the world at your feet dude! Good luck.
I can see why you would be depressed...have you ever had any kind of therapy for or about your fathers suicide? If not, then it might not be a bad idea to start...it could help you quite a bit...
I'm not saying go to a psychiatrist and get on medication....just go to a counselor and talk..school counselor would probably be a good place to start...
As far as the yeast infection...they are common..and no, your penis will not rot off...
Just know a few things about yeast infections....
They can be passed back and forth between sexual partners...sooooooooo, this means your girlfriend probably has the same thing going on....and both of you need to be treated at the same time...(that is, if you're having intercourse)...
You need to talk with her about it...because if she doesn't have a yeast infection, she will now if you are having sexual relations...
Yeast infections are more bothersome than anything..and yes, they are embarrassing too....
You could go to a drug store and get any antifungal...medicines that include this are ointments, creams, and sprays that they use to treat athletes foot...no kidding...they are all in the antifungal family and can be bought over the counter...your girlfriend on the other hand needs monistat and you guys need NOT to have sex while you are using this medicine...at least a week...I know, it's hard, but this is the only way you will get rid of it..otherwise...all that you will do is pass it back and forth to each other...
Good luck and I hope all turns out well.
After reading your question, I am really concerned for you. You obviously have a lot of things running through your head. When you get that much clutter in your head, and so many thoughts running around, it becomes very difficult to see things the way they really are. It sounds like there are things you KNOW but you are starting to question all that. There are a lot of things I could say here that probably wouldn't help you much. What you need is a real live person to talk to. You didn't mention if your mother is in your life. You need to go to an adult that you really trust and talk to them about these things. Like I said, when you get so much in your head, it's just so hard to figure it all out by yourself. Go to someone and let them know how you are feeling. If there is no one you can trust, call 911. They are trained to guide you in these situations. One thing I can tell you for sure, is that there IS hope. Killing yourself is NEVER the answer. Please, go to someone. Don't try to get through these things alone.
Maybe she cheat on you?
tell her u wont want to have sex because u don't want to grow up to be a dad so soon
Firstly you probably wouldn't have caught the yeast infection, it is generally an infection that is picked up becuase of either poor hygiene or the fact that you aren't getting air to your penis enough. Creams generally work and cannestan is a widely used and popular choice - maybe you could ask ask your doctor for that to try.
If you girlfriend goes off you for this then I'm afriad it isn't the 'true love' you suspect on her part anyway.
bad luck happens to everybody
dont think that you are the only one
sometimes it is better to see things in black and white
you have an infection on your tallywacker
fine... lets cure it and take measures not to have it happen again...no need to kill yourself
maybe try cleaning it more often pull back the forskin and clean it daily...
now the girlfrien that loves you so much....
if she really loves you...she will stay with you..despite any infection that you may have
if she does not stay with you then you were wrong about her and its better that she goes so that you can find someone that really and truly does love you
no need to kill yourself
try to remember... no matter how bad things get YOU can always do something to make them better
but if you sit there and whine about it will never get better... but it will go away
you are way to young to have all these issues....go see a dr and get that all taken care of....sounds like you have a terrific girlfriend and guess what...if she really loves you she will love you through anything.....i've been married to my guy for 34 years and he has seen me go through hell...have you had counceling for your Dad.....you need to do that...i know...my son-in-law commited suicide too...left my two grandkids without a dad...so i know you have a bright and wonderful future ahead of you....these are all learning times...think about what good you will have learned...don't be mad at your Dad...he was really sick as my son-in-law was....there is no other way to describe it....only thing my grandson said after he was told about his dad...he was 5....was why didn't he get help.....theres lots of people out there to help you just be determined and search.....some times you need a second dose of meds to help you...talk to somebody about Dad too....the girl friend sounds like a keeper....take care...some of us do care...i am a mom of 6 with 6 grandkids....take care
OK, you are over reacting a little bit. Just calm down and take a step back.
You said a few times that your girl friend loves you very much, if this is true, she is NOT going to leave you over a yeast infection. Yeast infections are very common, just ask almost any woman! Having one is not necessarily a sign of being dirty, some people develop them simply from taking antibiotics! Yeast is in the air all around us. Just follow your doctors treatment plan and it will go away over time. If it becomes necessary, discuss it with your girl friend, just do it in a calm and rational manner.
If you are having thoughts about killing yourself, you seriously need to talk with a doctor about it! Committing suicide does not solve ones problems, it just hurts the ones you love, as you know all too well. I know you do not want your loved ones to feel the pain you felt when your father died.
Talk to a doctor, he or she will give you the help you need.
I am not trying to be mean but I think you need to hear this. You have gone through some rough stuff , especially for someone so young. Things won't get better until you start believing that they will. I think you need to get therapy , and talk to a professional about losing your father like that. especially if you feel like killing yourself. So get help. Get a therapist who is especially trained to treat depression. NOW!!! There is nothing wrong with seeking help when you need it!