Why am I arrogant around rude around nice people?!
Question:
Why am I arrogant around rude around nice people?
I'm always rude and arrogant like I cut people off, butt in, say bluntly I don't know what you are talking about, and stuff like that when I'm with my church cellgroup! But normally I'm the nicest quietest most mildmannered girl around. My church cellgroup mates kind of ostracise me now. I don't know why I'm like that around them. The more I want to seem nice, to change their minds, the ruder and the more faux pax I make. Help!
Answers:
this is mental problem. relax im not saying ur mental im just saying u needa overcome this problem.
quote: "The more I want to seem nice, to change their minds, the ruder and the more faux pax I make". well, you have to try harder and resist the temptation to be rude.
hope that helps.