Why did I react this way? Fear or instinct?!

Question: Why did I react this way? Fear or instinct?

Basically I went to visit this apartment, and I really liked it, the guy was really nice, and everything was clean. However when I went to pay the rent, his wife was there, and she just was the complete opposite of him. She was mean, cold and unfriendly. When I expressed concerns about some dog that was living nearby, out on the street, and whether he's ever off his leash, because he was barking, and I was kind of afraid, she was very sarcastic in the way she responded to me and I had no idea why. So all of a sudden in a way, everything kind of changed for me. I was no longer excited to sign the contract, and pay my rent, and that apartment no longer had the same appeal to me. So I didn't end up taking it. But why did I have such a change of heart? Was this my instinct, or fear? Because I kind of regret my decision now, but I don't know if I was acting off of instinct or fear?

Answers:

a mixture of both?
perhaps something deep within you did not trust that woman or that environment and thus created a feeling of fear within you to get you to lose interest in that place and move on?

It's good to trust your instincts. It can keep you out of a lot of deep, deep trouble. Being in the right place and around the right people is very important. I think you absolutely did the right thing.

Maybe she didn't trust her husband around you. Sounds like you made the right move. She would have been a pain to live with.

Your fear overwhelmed you.
Don't worry, it's natural for that to happen.

i was probably best you didnt sign it but it was just a dog

don't name it fear or instinct..u lack the quality of compromising and adjusting nature in you...now stop regretting over that apartmant..and start looking for new one..and this time keep in mind that to find the complete perfect and comfortable is difficult for almost anyone and if to stay away from home is really that important then u ll have to adjust somewhere..
most of the times, it depends how are u with people then it also changes the way people are with u..u can't make everyone around u perfect so the key is to stop expecting much from everyone and have some goals in life and try to complete them in all the circumstances...as for people around u , give them so much love that they are ready to do anything for u..

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