Some opinions please ? Really appreciated ..?!
Question: Some opinions please ? Really appreciated ..?
I literally hate doing that work , i feel depressed going to work everyday beside its not the kind of job i would like to do ... ( a graduate teacher assistant at my university )
I started to get like seriously depressed , and its getting on my nerves ... My parents does not support my point of view , and if i left my work for now , i won't be able to support myself financially on the long term ...
Help , suggestions and opinions really appreciated .. and excuse my bad english .. =)
thanks in advance
Answers:
Realizing you can't change what life brings you but you can change how you react to it, how you see it. Doing the work necessary for long term happiness is not easy. Quitting your current position, dealing with people and parents, unemployment, more free time to beat yourself up, lack of funds, is not fun and may be worse than continuing to work there. I suggest learning about yourself and what you need to make yourself happy. Use this job to fuel your passion to thrive. Focus on what you like about your current position while you are still there. No one is completely happy with things so they make allowances on what is acceptable. It could always be worse. I tell people do do what they love for a living and you never have to 'work' again. I've turned my hobbies into jobs and gotten paid very well for it. Because I loved it and learned so much about it I had special knowledge, you couldn't stop me from learning. Do you know what you want to do? I would switch jobs and treat it like school, work somewhere for six months, (a semester) and see if it worked for me. Then move on. You have to be true to yourself, and not always listen to others, but be aware of what they're saying because they have a unique outside perspective on you. See a counselor if you can for a unbiased opinion and help with your depression. Having people in your corner is important while you do your job/career quest. I see life as art and my work as crafting my art, not in conflict with my innate gifts and nature. You are a two-part creature; a human animal with needs and wants and a higher level spiritual being. Use prayer and meditation for becoming more centered and physical activity for health. Here's some personality tests to learn about your personality type. This will tell you more about yourself. You can use this information to become more aware of what is rewarding for you.
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm http://www.teamtechnology.co.uk/mmdi/questionnaire/
http://www.keirsey.com/sorter/instruments2.aspx?partid=0
http://kisa.ca/personality/
http://sminds.com/index.html
dont quit yet becuase you dont have any other income. just start finding a job now. once you find one, give your current job a 2 weeks notice so it wont look bad on your record
go back to it! And make yourself like it. Then look around for something else.beats the alternative.
experienced
Do the career your happy doing
hmmm college?