why are some people so good at socializing when they aint a nice person?!
Question: Why are some people so good at socializing when they aint a nice person?
i dont understand why life is like that... & no they aint fake friends..
Answers:
A valid observation.
Not nice people are very two-faced, insincere, manipulative, lack modesty, embarassment or shame and appear cool. They flatter guillible people, who have the wool pulled over their eyes.
You though do *not* try copying them. Instead be humble, modest, polite, sincere, etc. When people eventually dump these silver-tongue characters they will then give you a chance.
There is a saying which confirms what you wrote:
"Street angels, home devils!"
Life experience!
They "ain't" --huh?? Your use of ain't ...is a real turnoff...
If you can spell and use the word 'socializing' correctly...then why use 'ain't'...?? :)
People are usually drawn to others who have the same vibrations... they are more alike 'inside.' A lot of it depends upon what you really think of YOURSELF... People who have a lot of friends usually think well of themselves and seldom bother criticizing others.
Try to approach people and show a sincere interest in them...find NICE things to say about them...not overdone...but just nice things to say...Ask questions 'how are you doing?' "Forget about what they think of YOU...and show interest in THEM. Amazing how this can help! Good luck!
...I only just found out that an arrogant person could be masking an inferiority complex....
because for you they are rude, but between themselves they look good. for example, your best friends could look rude to someone else. it's always relative
they put themselves out their. Some people like it when people are loud and friendly because that makes them laugh or something as simple as that.
i know its dead nippy
but hey thats life, i guess they're just very charasmatic