Why don't I want to be social?!
Question: Why don't I want to be social!?
Ever since I re-started self harming myself I don't want to go out and see friends!. School's OK, but I can't bear the thought of meeting up with more than a couple of friends outside of school!.
It's my birthday coming up, but I don't want to do anything because that means I have to deal with a large group of people, which is a daunting idea!.
Any ideas why this is or what I can do to combat the problem!?
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It's my birthday coming up, but I don't want to do anything because that means I have to deal with a large group of people, which is a daunting idea!.
Any ideas why this is or what I can do to combat the problem!?
Thanks x
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Answers:
I am sorry you started self harming again!. Maybe you are feeling a lot of stress right now!.
Keep getting together with those couple of friends you have!.
Many people don't like to be involved with large groups of people!.
If you are in a large group, stay near the door so you can take a break for a moment outside!. Stick with your friends!. Remember that there are probably other people in that large group that feel the same way as you!. You are not alone!. Best Wishes!.
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Keep getting together with those couple of friends you have!.
Many people don't like to be involved with large groups of people!.
If you are in a large group, stay near the door so you can take a break for a moment outside!. Stick with your friends!. Remember that there are probably other people in that large group that feel the same way as you!. You are not alone!. Best Wishes!.
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I think that this has happened because deep down you feel guilty for harming yourself again, when [possibly!.!.] people have told you to stop, or dont want you to do it!.
I really think what you should do it talk it out with a psychologist, or somebody really close to you thats always been there!. You sound like your really depressed and masochism isnt going to fix your problems, its just going to complicate them further!.
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I really think what you should do it talk it out with a psychologist, or somebody really close to you thats always been there!. You sound like your really depressed and masochism isnt going to fix your problems, its just going to complicate them further!.
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try to expose yourself gradually into bigger groups of people!. also make a list of your qualities(be honest) smart!. cool etc!. then tape it to your bathroom mirror so you can see it multiple times a day!. read it over and over!. believe it! as for your cutting you need help an inpatient facility works great!. good luck with everything!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont like groups of people!.!.!. its all a competetion for who can be the loudest or funniest!.!.!. i haven't hung around in a group for over 5 years!.!.!. (im 18)!.!.!. invite a few friends over not many!.!.!. just as many as you want!.!.!. its your bday!.!. chose it to be how you want it!.!.!. and chose what YOU want!.!.!. you are the most important person to you :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
ONLY A THERAPIST WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD!.!.!.GET HELP NOW!Www@Answer-Health@Com