How can I encourage my husband to be less angry at everyone, more positive?!
Question: How can I encourage my husband to be less angry at everyone, more positive!?
When your spouse is extremely negative (constantly getting irritated with situations and people) how can you encourage them to be more positive, but at the same time, make sure you know that you are on their side and care about their feelings!?
Whenever my husband is all fired up about something, I feel like I shouldn't just go right along with him and feed his anger, so I will try to get him to see that maybe the person really meant no harm, or maybe something was just an accident, etc!. (try to get him to see the situation in a more positive light) But this seems to get him frustrated with ME, like I don't accept him or am not on his side!. But I AM on his side!! I just don't want to say things that will feed his anger and make things even worse!. How can I be more helpful in these situations!?
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Whenever my husband is all fired up about something, I feel like I shouldn't just go right along with him and feed his anger, so I will try to get him to see that maybe the person really meant no harm, or maybe something was just an accident, etc!. (try to get him to see the situation in a more positive light) But this seems to get him frustrated with ME, like I don't accept him or am not on his side!. But I AM on his side!! I just don't want to say things that will feed his anger and make things even worse!. How can I be more helpful in these situations!?
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Extremely negative, angry guys are hard to change!. They say that women marry guys thinking they will change, and men marry women thinking they won't change!. Both are wrong!. You need to be true to how you feel!. Being excessively angry isn't good, but trying to change him will only frustrate both of you!. You need to set some boundaries when you're married to an angry man!. That means you tell him that he is free to be angry if he wants to, but you aren't going to get pulled into it!. You can discuss what is bothering him with your true feelings, but you must refuse to agree that he has a right to be that angry!. The only thing that will change him is maybe your example, more than your advice!. Men don't like that kind of advice because they think you are criticizing them!. Be yourself, and he will be himself!. Hopefully, he'll mature before you have children and he dumps his anger on them!. Praying for him is probably the best thing you can do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conductive to growth, expansion and success!. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results!. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action!. Whatever the mind expects, it finds!.
Not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking!. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it!. Among the people who accept it, not many know how to use it effectively to get results!. Yet, it seems that many are becoming attracted to this subject, as evidenced by the many books, lectures and courses about it!. This is a subject that is gaining popularity!.
It is quite common to hear people say: "Think positive!
Not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking!. Some consider the subject as just nonsense, and others scoff at people who believe and accept it!. Among the people who accept it, not many know how to use it effectively to get results!. Yet, it seems that many are becoming attracted to this subject, as evidenced by the many books, lectures and courses about it!. This is a subject that is gaining popularity!.
It is quite common to hear people say: "Think positive!
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