Does your life suck as much as mine?!
Question: Does your life suck as much as mine!?
right now i'm broke, single, unemployed and afraid of failure!. i'm feeling very alone and fearful that i'm not going to make it, fearful that if i don't ask for help, i'll crash and burn!. fearful that things aren't going to get better and i'm going to end up offing myself!.
(no worries here, i don't want to and i won't kill myself)
but!.!.!. i really want to hear that i'm not the only one to be fired, lonely, lost, confused!.!.!.!. have any of you had periods of time like mine!? all of the spheres of my life (friends, family, home, school, job) seem to have something intrinsically wrong with them and i'm really worried that i'm not going to make it!.
how did you get through it!?
does it happen again!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
(no worries here, i don't want to and i won't kill myself)
but!.!.!. i really want to hear that i'm not the only one to be fired, lonely, lost, confused!.!.!.!. have any of you had periods of time like mine!? all of the spheres of my life (friends, family, home, school, job) seem to have something intrinsically wrong with them and i'm really worried that i'm not going to make it!.
how did you get through it!?
does it happen again!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sure!!!! I am currently unemployed(but a stay at home mom) and living with my baby's dad (also unemployed) and my baby and we are staying at his parents house!. My friends sure don't call me too much anymore, I don't really speak to my parents, I don't drive and am in constant fear of my boyfriend leaving me with absolutley nothing and no one!. There is no end in sight either of this living with his parents thing, although they are very kind and generous, I still would like my own home!. I never have any money, obviously, and my 10 month old is currently waking up anywhere from 2-4 times a night and it may take up to two hours sometimes to get her to go back to bed, so there's the sleep deprivation!. Not that these problems are worse than yours, it sounds like you have REAL problems, mine aren't too bad!. Don't worry though, things will definitley improve for you, just try to remain positive, really, you can do whatever you want to do in life, it just depends on how hard you want to work and what you're willing to sacrifice!. So it will get better, it will be what you make it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
acting out of desperation sometimes works, but you should be leved-headed when you make a decision about what to do!. in the course of a day or week, if you never feel level-headed, that should be job one!.
when you think you have no one (esp!. if you're male), you probably do, you just have to reach out to them without fear!.
seeing intrinsic fault everywhere could be the mark of an idealist!. i'm one too!. i don't know how this could help except in knowing that your worldview is not singular!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when you think you have no one (esp!. if you're male), you probably do, you just have to reach out to them without fear!.
seeing intrinsic fault everywhere could be the mark of an idealist!. i'm one too!. i don't know how this could help except in knowing that your worldview is not singular!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Mine probably does suck as much as yours!.
Friends - no close friends; about 1 or 2 acquaintances
Family - none
Job - it sucks and is not secure (could lose it at any time!.!.!.!.things are so f****d up there right now)
i too am worried about the future!. i don't know what is gonna happen but im worried
Sorry i don't have any answers, but you are not alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Friends - no close friends; about 1 or 2 acquaintances
Family - none
Job - it sucks and is not secure (could lose it at any time!.!.!.!.things are so f****d up there right now)
i too am worried about the future!. i don't know what is gonna happen but im worried
Sorry i don't have any answers, but you are not alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've been through the same stuff!. I know you feel like it's the end of the world but just think it could be worse!. My boyfriend broke up with me and i didn't have a car, a job, a home or a friend to lean on!. I thought that i couldn't get any lower than what i was!. But i made it!. I got a job and friends and everything pick up after that!. It took awhile though!!! so hang in there!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dun think my lifes as bad as yours but just think positive and pray to god and ask for things yuo want n in return you might get itWww@Answer-Health@Com
yes!.
i poop my pants!.
what's worse than that !?
i wanna die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i poop my pants!.
what's worse than that !?
i wanna die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, almost three months ago I let my emotions/stress get the best of me and I drove my 96' Mustang GT into a concrete median on the interstate!. (I miss my damn car now!) lol Anyway, now I've let go of all the friendships I had because they weren't good!. I am lonely, but I know it's better for me to focus on myself right now!. I have had really unfortunate luck with school!. The university neglects to tell their students that after a year of core classes only 40 out of 300 make it into the specific program!. - Nice way to waste your money for a year!. lol I've been applying left and right for jobs!. So here I am: no job, no car, no friends, and hospital bills!. In the end I'm happy though!. Not sure how!? lol Needless to say, you're not alone out there!. I have no clue where I'm going or how I'm going to pay these bills!. At least I have family that's there for me!. =)
Some advice: you say you're very fearful, it's time to take some risks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some advice: you say you're very fearful, it's time to take some risks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im also broke, divorced, and threatened to never live a quality life, everything seems to suck, but I just accept that it could be worse!. I have had anxiety since I was in grade school, and I have tried to be successful, but the anxiety just pushed itself right into everything I have done!. and I just posted a question asking 'what's wrong with me'!. They all say anxiety, or social phobia!. Im sure thats what it is, I just wish I can avoid taking meds and having to pay money for meds that I can't afford!. Maybe I could if I take some meds, maybe that will help get a better job, I don't know!. I just pray it stops soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You've failed! So no longer be afraid to fail again!.
Being broke can be fixed!. Being single isn't a vice, but if you feel it is one, that too can be fixed when the time is right!. Being employed right now isn't easy, but maybe listing your skills can lead to some ideas that you haven't even considered!.
The biggest thing that has helped me through those depressive (is that a word!?) states are picking up hobbies and trying them until I find one I like!. Did you notice I said finding one I like as opposed to being great at something!. I recently picked up golf and let me tell you!.!.!.I suck! I don't yell fore on any one shot, I just yell fore before every shot!.!.!.but you know what!? I like golf!.
I also find that joining any team sport such as organized softball, or any sports leagues like maybe coed softball in your case, not only gets your mind back into healthy land, but also can be fun, and you meet a lot of new people!.
Dating is like getting a job in one major way!. If you don't like yourself, then others would be crazy to like you!. By you not appreciating that you are a great freaking person, then others assume you know yourself best and if you aren't worth liking - then why should they do so!?
I think you should list good qualities about yourself and have us pump you up! You are good! Channel the good energy!.!.!.the last thing someone that is depressed needs is to learn about other depressions!.!.!.someone may add something to your depression list that you didn't even think of yet and you would become even more depressed!. Let's cheer up!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Being broke can be fixed!. Being single isn't a vice, but if you feel it is one, that too can be fixed when the time is right!. Being employed right now isn't easy, but maybe listing your skills can lead to some ideas that you haven't even considered!.
The biggest thing that has helped me through those depressive (is that a word!?) states are picking up hobbies and trying them until I find one I like!. Did you notice I said finding one I like as opposed to being great at something!. I recently picked up golf and let me tell you!.!.!.I suck! I don't yell fore on any one shot, I just yell fore before every shot!.!.!.but you know what!? I like golf!.
I also find that joining any team sport such as organized softball, or any sports leagues like maybe coed softball in your case, not only gets your mind back into healthy land, but also can be fun, and you meet a lot of new people!.
Dating is like getting a job in one major way!. If you don't like yourself, then others would be crazy to like you!. By you not appreciating that you are a great freaking person, then others assume you know yourself best and if you aren't worth liking - then why should they do so!?
I think you should list good qualities about yourself and have us pump you up! You are good! Channel the good energy!.!.!.the last thing someone that is depressed needs is to learn about other depressions!.!.!.someone may add something to your depression list that you didn't even think of yet and you would become even more depressed!. Let's cheer up!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No my life isn't compared to yours, but I have different issues that cause just as much stress in mine!. I'm not devaluing yours (please don't think that), just saying that everyone's stress level is different and what they can cope with is different!. I've been through a lot, more so than most (I have 5 kids, 4 have disabilities, had an infant son die, and my husband is 100% disabled veteran and only 39 yrs old) so my issues are different, but yours are just as important!.
I think you need to find something positive in your life and focus on that!. How about spending some time with a good friend!? Share what you're feeling, ask for their support, advice, ect!.!.!. I honestly hope this didn't offend you, I was only trying to help!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you need to find something positive in your life and focus on that!. How about spending some time with a good friend!? Share what you're feeling, ask for their support, advice, ect!.!.!. I honestly hope this didn't offend you, I was only trying to help!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
to be honest its happening to me now, i got out of highschool not to long ago and just lost alot of friends, i'm single aswell, and enmployed yea freakin sucks people won't even hire me no matter where i apply!
so its been about a year now i been feeling alone in my house until i thought man i have to do something, so i just DO now i just dont tell myself im going to do it, i will wait for another time, i just DO what i have to do now even though i'm still SINGLE, NO JOB, i made a step for my step to go to college to not see myself be a failure!.
trust me i know what your going threw i went threw it for like a year and yea still going threw it, but once you DO it feels alot better!.
so yea!.
DO!Www@Answer-Health@Com
so its been about a year now i been feeling alone in my house until i thought man i have to do something, so i just DO now i just dont tell myself im going to do it, i will wait for another time, i just DO what i have to do now even though i'm still SINGLE, NO JOB, i made a step for my step to go to college to not see myself be a failure!.
trust me i know what your going threw i went threw it for like a year and yea still going threw it, but once you DO it feels alot better!.
so yea!.
DO!Www@Answer-Health@Com