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Why would somebody that I am helping send me trust worthy emails like how they feel and whats going on and then told me something really personal then send an email saying!.!.!.

!.!.!.Hi,
I am sorry I bothered you and wrote to you, I know you are busy now!.Please forget all the things I have said in the Emails!.I promise this is the last email so your not bothered by me,and so you can do your work!.I understand if you dont want to show up on Thursday!.I am sorry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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this person is most likely just feeling badly about "bugging" you with their problems!.!.!.

or!.!.!.maybe this person is just going through a rough time and misinterpreted something that you did or said!.

in the mind of someone that needs help, they can sometimes have a time limit that they set!.!.maybe your emails didn't get to them in a timely manner or maybe you didn't reply!.!.!.or they just didn't receive an email because of server error!.

maybe you said something in your emails that they mistook as having a different meaning!.!.sometimes the tone of our words gets misinterpreted in print because without hearing it from the person, the person reading has to make assumptions about the tone from the information given!.!.

write them back and ask for sure, and reassure them that you are always there to help!.!.
hope this helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all did something happened between the two of you!? She/he said that they understand that you did not want to show up on Thursday!. Did this person invited you somewhere and you told them no!? If that was the case they might feel rejected or feel like a burden to you!.

If this is the case just explain to them that it's not them why you cannot make it on Thursday but you have other commitments and reschedule!.

If that is not the case, well, you know the state of mind of this person through their emails!. This person sounds very depressed and a bit helpless!. Use the information you have on this person to help them!. Whatever problems they told you are most likely affecting them right now!. This person sounds very hopeless!. The best thing you can do right now is talk to them and let them know that you do not thing they are bothering you (if you indeed want to continue talking this person) and just be there for them to listen!.

I don't think you should take it personal!. When we get very frustrated and hopeless about our current situation we tend to push out the people we care about the most away!. But this person sounds like they need a friend to listen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They sound very passive aggressive, trying to maike you feel bad if you dont respond, and bringing you into something you didnt ask to know!. Sounds like there trying to make you feel sorry for them so you will feel like you have to be there for them!. dont fall for it, you didnt ask to be involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what is this, do you know him/her or something, what does he want from you, it sound like he/she asked you out or something, it up to you but if you don't know him at all, she shouldn'tWww@Answer-Health@Com

They could have been drunk or on drugs when they first emailed you!. Maybe the doctor changed their medication for mental problems!. Maybe they have serious self-esteem issues (I understand if you do not want to show up)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that person is depressed!. he is using emotional blackmail because he wants you to feel sorry!. he wants other people to be depressed as wellWww@Answer-Health@Com

They feel like they r getting in your way and bugging u and they dont want to be annoying write back assuring them they are not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

trying to guilt you into talking to themWww@Answer-Health@Com





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