No desire to live?!
Question: No desire to live!?
I have a wonderful husband and two beautiful baby girls but I still have no desire to live!. I don't want to do anything with the life I have and so become depressed due to lack of things to do and enjoy doing so I don't want to live anymore!. I wish I didn't have to but haven't the courage to do anything about it!. I have no money for councelling let alone new clothes for myself and my husband and daughters!. my desire to self harm is immense as I used to do that for many years and stopped 2 years and 5 months ago!. I don't know what to do!. I SHOULD feel I have everything to live for as I have my children and husband but I don't!. I feel like I'm turning to ice again and nothing can free me from my returning prison!. please give me ideas as to what I should do!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Do you have a close friend you can confide in!? Perhaps an extended family member that you trust to talk with!? How did you stop trying to "self harm" 2 1/2 years ago!? Is that option still available to you!? Depending on where you live, there may be free or low-priced counseling available!. Good counseling doesn't have to mean big $$!. Have you talked to your husband about how you're feeling!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
hi! i feel sad for the state u r in!.!. i also felt the same when i lost my father to cancer when i was 15!. but i still remember his words: he used to say that life is a very precious and valuable gift whose value u underestimate!. u find its real worth only when it is too late!. so we should all make good use of the life given to us!. even if u dont hav any desire to live for urself, but u will hav to do so for ur lovely daughters and for ur husband!. also ,u must find hobbies to distract u!.counselling will not be needed if u have the will to carry on despite all odds, so u can also confide in to a close member of ur family!.if u encouragement from others it will help u to overcome this problem!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope!."
God has hope for your life!. Call out to Him!. He loves you and is right there for you!. I strongly suggest reading the Bible and asking God to give you hope for your life!. That is what worked to get me out of depression and living a hopeful life!.
Psalms 91:15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him!.
Another thing that is tremendously helpful is to make it your goal to be a blessing to others!. When you give, you will receive!. Look at it like planting seeds!. When you plant seeds of love, you will get the same thing back!. It is hard to stay depressed when God fills you with hope and you are being a blessing to others!.
Don't give up! There is hope!Www@Answer-Health@Com
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope!."
God has hope for your life!. Call out to Him!. He loves you and is right there for you!. I strongly suggest reading the Bible and asking God to give you hope for your life!. That is what worked to get me out of depression and living a hopeful life!.
Psalms 91:15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him!.
Another thing that is tremendously helpful is to make it your goal to be a blessing to others!. When you give, you will receive!. Look at it like planting seeds!. When you plant seeds of love, you will get the same thing back!. It is hard to stay depressed when God fills you with hope and you are being a blessing to others!.
Don't give up! There is hope!Www@Answer-Health@Com