Why do I measure myself by other people's thoughts on me and how to change?!
Question: Why do I measure myself by other people's thoughts on me and how to change!?
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I can see by your "user name" that you have poor self esteem, and if other people are teasing you, that doesn't help either!. I had the same problem for years, until I went to therapy, and my therapist made me realize that I cannot make anyone say things to me, they will anyway, but I have the choice of taking it personally or ignoring the comment and the person!. You have complete control over how you react to what others think and say, I really would recommend a counselor, and remember that you are a Child of God, and no one is "better" than you!. You deserve to be happy, and you can make that choice, though it isn't easy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think your self concious try to think more positively about yourself and Don't ask what people's thoughts about you are because their thoughts are good and they wouldn't be friends with you at all if they didn't have good thoughts about you at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have a major case of low self-esteem!. You use others "opinions && suggestions" to try to change because you feel th@ since they are telling you this, if you do it, they'll like you more!. Like all mental issues, you need a therapist!. Don't try to "cure" yerself!. You'll failWww@Answer-Health@Com