How do you get over your fears with talking to women?!
Question: How do you get over your fears with talking to women? I always worry about what I look like when it comes to girls. The reason why is because I always hear about how girls want a cute hot good looking man who's taller than them. This makes me feel very insecure when I hear girls talk this way, because I tend to think that I'm not that great looking really. Then I've heard that girls don't really care about looks, that it's all about personality, but I think they say that just to make ugly guys feel better. I'm really shy when it comes to girls because of what I've experienced in the past with them. I remember my very first crush I had on a girl who I really liked in the 4th grade. I put a love letter in her desk telling her how much I liked her, and later the teacher calls me to her desk and says to me, "what is this?!" making me feel as though I did something terribly wrong. Ever since then, I've always thought of myself as being odd and weird.
Answers: How do you get over your fears with talking to women? I always worry about what I look like when it comes to girls. The reason why is because I always hear about how girls want a cute hot good looking man who's taller than them. This makes me feel very insecure when I hear girls talk this way, because I tend to think that I'm not that great looking really. Then I've heard that girls don't really care about looks, that it's all about personality, but I think they say that just to make ugly guys feel better. I'm really shy when it comes to girls because of what I've experienced in the past with them. I remember my very first crush I had on a girl who I really liked in the 4th grade. I put a love letter in her desk telling her how much I liked her, and later the teacher calls me to her desk and says to me, "what is this?!" making me feel as though I did something terribly wrong. Ever since then, I've always thought of myself as being odd and weird.
I think you look kind of like Freddie Prinze Jr. And you only look kind of awkward with your hair long. The only way to get over your fears to face them head-on and take ever "no" as a way to get closer to a "yes". EVERYONE gets rejected just some less than others. Don't let it get you down. And the 2 women in the past being crazy were just 2 bad apples in the bunch so dig deep & find a good one!!
You are good-looking! Stop being so insecure and just go for it!
dude calm down.. we are all humans here.... forget what u heard and forget your past experience, just chill and girls will come by.. and talk to them normally and be yourself. thats all there is to it..
oh wow you are ugly
Mate yer not alone in how you are feeling. When i was in my school years ish i thought your way akward,shy,fumbly,nervous yet peeps thought i was confifent ~ it was a front. I was a 'nice boy' that was 'just friends' with alot of good looking girls.One day one of these girls and i kissed and that was like being switched on.Please believe me when i tell you we allll feel that way at one time or another and i know this wont help you now but sometimes it doesnt change! But i am a firm believer that if we dont go looking then our soul mate will eventually bump into us.I think its the atoms looking for love!